My daughter, what should I do about Dad-HELP!

I feel like I'am drowning. I stayed home with my 3 children from the time they were born. My husband thought and still thinks I'am a deadbeat for doing so. i should mention my initial reason for staying home is my oldest has a severe speech delay and I homeschool them. I believe I did a good job, he is college bound and I feel my time spent with them is well spent. My husband always felt I was nothing because I do not bring home money. He made me feel like nothing 24/7. My little girl now 9 has been having sleeping problems. he is very controlling and i know it is getting to her. I want to leave him, but have no money. I feel like there is no way out, please any help so appreciated. Thanks Abbey

There is always a way out Abbey, just because you dont have money is not an excuse to stay with a bully, arent there any mother and child refuge houses where you stay or any social work units you could get in touch with.

Davie

hi abbey

In starting when i was reading, i am feeling that you are doing something work which is selfless, but what are you doing why are you looking at results. At least think this , your husband is keeping you at home. Now, look at possibilities, you are doing self-lessly, may be this could feel your husband. I am sure if you carry on your all work with this mental attitude, this will give you big sucess.

For your daughter, give her full support. May be she is passing through some mental difficulties. This may be reason of her sleepless nights. Talk to her in lovely way, she will tell you what is going on her. Receive this responsibilities, May be god wants to see you a great mother. You have to pay a lot to achieve them.

Thnks