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Postby shivers » Thu Oct 30, 2008 12:19 am

And it's a good opinion, Rockit08.

It's power, coercive control, domination, needing to be right at other's expense, needing to put others down so one can feel elevated, unresolved anger that comes out as passive aggressive verbal abuse, entitlement, low self-esteem, emotional emptiness and false selves.

That about covers it. More or less.

Only just realising exactly how much my mother is passive aggressive verbal abuser. She's shocking!!!!
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Postby organictexan » Fri Mar 13, 2009 2:31 am

I absolutely love ignoring people like this because it just tears them up inside. Or killing them with kindness, really enthusiastically saying "What a wonderful day, have a spectacular day!"

I would also probably write a note and tape to his front door during the night. Just a very brief, anonymous note stating that if he talks crap about you again you'll sue him in court for slander. He'll have a hard time figuring out who it is since he probably verbally abuses all of his neighbors. What a creep!
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Postby Chucky » Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:12 pm

I realised this too (i.e. - that ignoring people is the best thing to do). By responding to them, you are just giving them what they want. By ignoring them, it confuses their stupid brain and they don't know how to react.
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Postby Sam28 » Thu Mar 19, 2009 2:49 am

For my dad it was his ego and severe misunderstanding of the rest of the world and people. He is severely anti-social.. never had any realy relations with people.. its crazy.. so he think he is the only one who is bad off and everyone else is in bliss.. he treats people that havent done anything to him, that dont anything more than him and arent happy like he thinks with severe hostility/jealousy.. and anger. He tries to bring them down to what he thinks is his level not realizing that they dont have what he thinks.. he does what ever he can to tear them down.. and he doesnt even realize what he is doing.. he is a heartless compassionless dissocial personality disorder. A psychopath that wants to kill/do harm to everyone and everything because he thinks they are heartless and dont care about his suffering when he is just unaware that they dont have it like he thinks.. infact alot of the times worse.
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Postby xkingx99 » Sun May 03, 2009 12:13 am

Sam28 wrote:For my dad it was his ego and severe misunderstanding of the rest of the world and people. He is severely anti-social.. never had any realy relations with people.. its crazy.. so he think he is the only one who is bad off and everyone else is in bliss.. he treats people that havent done anything to him, that dont anything more than him and arent happy like he thinks with severe hostility/jealousy.. and anger. He tries to bring them down to what he thinks is his level not realizing that they dont have what he thinks.. he does what ever he can to tear them down.. and he doesnt even realize what he is doing.. he is a heartless compassionless dissocial personality disorder. A psychopath that wants to kill/do harm to everyone and everything because he thinks they are heartless and dont care about his suffering when he is just unaware that they dont have it like he thinks.. infact alot of the times worse.


can you elaborate on this a little more.. why do you think he is like this?

i keep getting confused when you say "people dont have what he thinks"

what is it that he thinks they have? happiness?
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