Can you help me?

Hi,

My english is not that good, sorry for that.

I living in a house, what is split for 2 parts. My neighbor unfortunatelly mentally ill.
She moved here about 3 years ago, I alreadi lived her than 6 months.
I welcommed her and I dont know she is ill.
I just surprised, sometimes She is talking crazy thingg, but I let it go. And then I get depression, because my homesick. I dont vanted to take any medication, so I started to do joga, and I quit smoking, and I started to avoid her. I figured out, under that 2 years She lived here , She is ill, because I always saw her case worker to come.
I never asked her who is that person She told me.

Actually she never stopped talking. When I vent to the jard to read or relax She come out and She talked to me, She didn't bother I'm reading. First I'm vas polite, and listen to her even I knov what she sad is her imagination. She alvays have problem, with anybody.
And I get tired to listen this , and I have my own problem.
Now because I dont talked with her, only I greated her when we met, She running around the neighborhood and she saying bad things about me, and my family.

And this morning I was outside on the back yard and try to read, and She come to me, may I give her the lawnmower. I says No, You hawe to ask my houseband.
Anyway I'll have a back surgery next week, and I don't wanted to dig out the lawnmower from the garage.

This mover for both of us, just She never used, alvays I am, or her son do the work. And anyway, it flasd through my brain, what if Se hurt herself. So , because I sad no she started to yelling with me, and I just give the mover anyway.
And tell her please live my family and I alone, if she didn't I call her case worker, and I'll talk to him.

I come in my house and I started to shake, and my stomach just want to come out , I cryed. And than a saw She called the Police!
They not come to my house, just I don't know why se did this.

Anyway I dont know You understand what I wanted to say.

I dont know what I do but I cant stand this person anyimore. I alvays try to help her, or understand her, now She jumping on me...
That is to much.

My landlord want her out of here, Her case worker gived to a chance to move out of here, if She didn't stand us, and thats why She complaining to evryone in the neighborhood, bus She don't wanted to meve.
I cant move, because my boys don't want to go another shool.

I just don't know what to do, and I'm so tired....

Well if her instablilty is half of what you say, I dont think you have anything to worry about when she starts talking to the neighborhood. I dont think anyone will believe her. But if she has a case worker, that is who you should talk too.

I am sorry your two families are clashing. Some people who are ill have a hard time with bad tempers. I hope you work things out, it sounds like you are doing everything you can. Case worker should be kept notified of her hostile behavior, she may not be following her "plan" for living independently.

Hang in there and if you would like post again,
Peace to you,
red

Thank you!


I'll try to talk with her case worker, but I cant reach him yet.

The funny thig is, her son and her sons girlfriend is very nice people, and we talking, just She the only one who can't get alone with us.

My realy problem is, the other neighbors don't know She is ill, and they belive her. And I'm not that kind of person, who runing around and tell everibody , sorry she is ill. Its nobodies bussines. Not even mine! I just know unfortunatelly.

Anyway, I just needed somebody to tell my problem, because if I'm not, I going to be crazy..

Thanks to listen to me!