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not sure if I'm being abused, but SOMETHING sure feels wrong......almost for no reason whatsoever, my wife (of 3 years) will go into a rage at me......I know people get angry sometimes but this is nonsensical........it's like the only way I could prevent it from happening is to be able to read her mind act accordingly......we're having a baby very soon and I feel extremely alone.......and the kicker is, EVERYONE - my family members, my friends, her friends, people at church, etc etc say what a great person she is......this makes me feel like it's all MY issue and that no one would listen to me complain........

Can you be more specific lark, what does she say to you?

Ususally when something feels wrong it usually is, has she said anything to you that would hurt alot? Put you down?

yes and could you explain a bit more about her behavour/mood swings...was she like this before the pregnancy?

it's not always the words she used per se....it's the raging........and it can start over something so miniscule that sometimes I can't really remember what started it......her words are usually very blaming, like if I was more like this or that, our relationship would be better........but after the raging, there is NO resolution......the next day, we just go about our business as if nothing happened.......I realize I have a part in this too......I know I can be very emotionally unavailable......

That could be part of the reason you being unemotionally available, I notice not alot of men are which is ok.

It also could be that she is dealing with raging hormones because of her pregnancy which will set her off and the smallest thing you may do?