Do you agree that people?

Don't believe people have been abused because, they are abusers also? Agree or disagree?

I disagree. Not believing can be a form of abuse, but not always. Sometimes it's self-protection, sometimes it's fear or anger, probably other reasons too.

Kinda like abuse by proxy?

I'm not sure what you mean. Could you explain more?

This


http://samvak.tripod.com/abuse11.html

That's talking about being manipulated. People in that category can't be said to be abusers in the same way as the person doing the manipulating. Their behaviour isn't deliberately malicious.

Yes, abuse by proxy is a form of abuse. But the people being "used" aren't choosing to abuse, or even abusing through neglect. So I wouldn't call them "abusers".

Aww ok I got you I did not think anyone could be that cruel . The manipulation is well hidden