2 hypothetical questions for all the ladies out there

For all you ladies out there:


How noticeable are eyelashes on a guy?


Would you date a guy with no eyelashes? In one eye? Both eyes?



I'd appreciate it if you could answer these questions for me, I'm a guy and have suffered with Trich for years and years, eventually affecting my self-esteem more and more. But you know the story, i'd just appreciate it if these questions were answered by some of you lovely ladies out there.

Thanks alot

my partner has very few lashes due to a skin condition that makes him rub his eyes a lot...hes rubbed most of them out...he was like this when we met and i dont think i realy noticed. and no i dont think it would put any woman off dating

Would you stop dating a girl if she had to undergo chemo for cancer and her lashes and/or eyebrows fell out and never grew back? Trich is a disease and it's not your fault. I might notice that someone didn't have lashes but it wouldn't influence my decision to date him or not.

thanks for replying to my post, i appreciate any feedback by anyone..means a lot to me..good luck to the other trich sufferers out there, you are not alone. Definitely not alone..

hmmmmmmmm i guess guys cant wear make up to cover it up like us girls can!

to be honest i prob wouldnt even notice!

i think out of the 14 years ive been doing it, if people have noticed they havent asked, apart from, maybe 5 people altogether......... i doubt very much id be that bothered, my partner has put up with me for over 5 years!!
(even though he wants me to stop, obviously i do to, they have grown back now my eyelashes bUT i had a relapse last night, middle bit gone on my left eye, i feel like a complete idiot)

Women love who we love and we love them completely. At least good women do. My husband has his flaws and some of them are as emotional as my own. I'd love him no matter what. She's out there. Best of luck to you.


Ice...feeling like an idiot will only make it worse. You're not an idiot and you're not crazy and you are da**ed sure not alone.