by Wally58 » Fri Feb 23, 2018 10:48 am
I don't think that the therapist was trying to pass judgement. It may not have been intended to come across that way and if it was, you need to have it explained better.
Always feel free to ask a therapist to explain what they said in greater detail if it comes across as confusing. It is what they are paid for.
Therapists may call us out when we are not thinking in our best interests, but they should be supportive of our 'appropriate' goals. Like a stepping stone to get from here to there.
It is just as easy to fall out of love as it is to fall in love. People change and decide to part company through no fault of their own. This happens everyday.
Relationships are the toughest because the therapist doesn't have to walk in your shoes and doesn't have to live with what you live with. Some of the best therapists have lived through this.
Will you continue with therapy? It isn't unheard of to change therapists when we (or they) need to.
Best of luck to you.
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