by lynneerwell » Wed May 23, 2018 7:27 am
Me too, I also get very attached to fictional characters. I feel right now it is a way of escapism, though.. When I was with my boyfriend (now my friend), I didn't experience this as I was too focused on those moments with him and rather my obsession went toward us (understanding his interests, planing dates and travels, and ways of growing together as artists or opportunities to 'help the world' - our mission in life). When we weren't together, as we were long distance for different periods, I did become obsessed in characters, which also helped me to distract myself and feel the absence less/focus on something different.
I work from home, so usually I need discipline to concentrate and do my work, but it is quite hard... That is the reason why I try not to start a new TV series, or book, fiction, whatever, because then I can't stop if the story is good or if a character called my attention.
I must say, probably I am more obsessed than you, as I do read fiction, have written for some for the characters, or have bought something (like some sneakers). But as I said, I feel is a way of escapism... For now I kinda portray myself in the characters, identify with them, and live their stories as if in a dream. Or, they also inspire me in some way, which may be, to find more knowledge, to be more into sports, more balanced, or something like that...
I don't know if you find it too, that maybe you find that fictional world very pleasurable to be in. Maybe more so than the outside..