masquerade wrote:Cracked is right. This is a complex situation which is drawing you in, and obviously causing you a great deal of distress. My advice would be to change all your passwords on every site that you visit on line, close your membership to certain sites, collect all the information that you have and show the police. I hope this works out well for you.
I don`t believe hiding is the solution here....
I have a problem because i have the feeling that his IP address was fake and that it lead to another person then who he stated himself to be..
His IP address had a strange coding that could imply something very secret...
After it got closed i got some ideas what that code might mean.
I think its a person who is married and that is why this is getting so complicated, not only is he married but he is old and that makes him very afraid to leave his wife, who is more then half his age younger.
I don`t think i met him totally coincidental in that page that day, i think his wife has started to realize just what the deal with him was, and that it wasn`t just sunshine days with expenses covered, but also a very old man that she had been dating-and then got married to.
When she got married to him, she also got married to his money which is now holding her back from divorcing-and the fact that he has been taking so good care of her, so her guilt just won`t allow to. And he probably doesn`t want to part with neither his money, her or his pride in this case.
So that is why he is so angry with me because i would give his wife a perfect excuse for leaving him.
She could either choose to leave him or forgive him for being part of a fantasy-as that is nearly all that was. But of course his neurotic side takes over for his sanity.
I think its hard to respond to this as i have absolutely no proof what so ever...
It could also be that he is just a scammer who happened to meet me?
But like i said, i was the one initiating most of the contact seeing as i thought he was someone else.
Its a very complicated case and you are making it even more complicated with your speculations as i think the best thing to do is just forget about it, so i would like if you stopped giving me dumb suggestions about what to do, as that suggestion doesn`t prove any thing, and you probably knew that already or else you wouldn`t make that suggestion in the first place....
The guy on internet is clearly having a masquerade with me, i have felt some sort of a presence of him in here too as he has been following me around a lot on different net pages.
Its a very complicated case- i have one man in a internet place who has stated that he has had sex with me on his mind, another man in the same page has stated that he has seen me in two different pages by quoting things i have said in them.
In some way this reminds me of a relationship i had with a much older man many years ago...
He had completely white hair, he was my boss that is how we became friends.
He was my superior but i didn`t really have anything directly to do with him (unless on seldom shifts where he was some sort of a mentor in case needed).
He befriended me on the bus on the way to work one morning, and we became good friends.
I liked him.
Then as our friendship evolved he asked me out for dinner etc..
Soon i realized he was interested in more then just a friendship and it made me feel very uncomfortable both because of his age and his marriage.
He started to stalk me when i said i didn`t want to have contact with him any more.
It took me a long time of patience to get him to understand that i never wanted to have sex with and in the end i had to be harsh with him, since he clearly didn`t listen when i was being polite....
I could have contacted his wife about my suspicion, i had his text messages on my phone and she probably could figure out where they were coming from, but thankfully he gave up before i came to that.
I apologize if i sound harsh in this comment but like you already stated this is a complicated relationship...
If that IP address has been closed then there probably is little or nothing the police will do. The way police work in my country is that they won`t take a case unless its really serious aka serious threats etc..this is also probably the case for searching after the owner of that old IP address...
Perhaps the police will come up empty/inconclusive, then what?????
I have asked around about his IP address and all i got for answer was that it might not be real, so i am not exactly in a good position to go to the police.
What if the police find out that his IP address belong to someone famous? Will they automatically close the case????
I don`t feel i have a strong case despite me seeing a provocative/threatening picture, (which has now been deleted since the forum where he posted it has been closed). So if we ever got to the place of real confrontation it would maybe just be word against word any ways....

It doesn`t really help to put down my accounts, and being online is all the social life i get.