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Re: Stalker on net

Postby Hallusinating » Thu Mar 01, 2012 1:15 pm

CrackedGirl wrote:dont follow N's request to keep your FB profile open - it is not a good idea, even if you dont have ppl following you. In addition you could report him to the FB team for the pic he sent you as that is sick.


I haven`t followed N`s request of keeping the page open.

Regarding the picture he sent me it has been deleted because it was inside a forum which has been put down. We started a conversation in there first which then evolved into sharing emails, which i know is stupid.
I have to regard everybody since more people are involved. There was also another person involved in the conversation i had with J, he was anonymous but i have a suspicion that his name also starts with a D?(Not the same guy as the other "D") Since there already is a D in here i will have to use an initial from his nick, so his name is G. I don`t really know who he is or why he is involved???
I am guessing he is a friend of J? Or someone who took interest in the online conversation i had with J?
He participated in it, reading my posts until he got ill and stopped, since he was following my posts so eagerly it could have been S?

Since he had a anonymous profile it is impossible to know for sure.

A lot of people to follow up on in here, i know...its quite some circus
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Re: Stalker on net

Postby Hallusinating » Thu Mar 01, 2012 1:28 pm

shooting_star wrote:Your last post was too confusing and complicated to follow. However my advice to you is to stop talking to anyone you dont know. Don't look for guys on the internet. Get a real relationship and stop talking to the creepers online. And DONT meet these freaks! Also telling the coworkers is a BAD idea. First of all they are not going to want to get involved. Second it would just make him even more mad at you. Third, if they knew it could possibly put them in danger if he really is dangerous.


I talked to J because i sorta knew him and a lot of other people also talked to him.
I should have been more careful with N but since i was confused and because i feel safe sitting in front of the computer i didn`t think much to it.
I don`t think he is all that aggressive but of course that picture was over the hill and then some...
but like i said i involved N into something he maybe didn`t want to be so involved in, so maybe he had some reason to be angry, if he was married. Which i apologized for afterwards and explained to him that i thought (in my confusion) that he was J:who had involved me into his lonely, horny space for a while with powerfully strong suggestions. Or mind control as we really call it.
I am not contacting his co workers, thanks for the good advice. When you explain it that way it sounds reasonable to not do it.
But like i say i might have "forced" him into this rage by my own rage for revenge on the man i thought him to be....
So that is why i cannot see the reason for me to go to the police. It took me a long time to figure out that he was really who he said to be because J is good with impressions.
I sent N a long deep apologizing and explaining letter. I didn`t get a answer so i don`t know if he ever read it? Maybe he blocked my email address?

Some more explaining there and it really helps to have a place i can vent this problem, since i am beginning to feel as if the rage i am now feeling inside of me, is coming from J, so that makes it a bit easier since i can narrow things down. Also its good its not N. Not sure about S???
He has made some remarks lately about my statements on a site. I hope he has stopped doing that since i asked him politely to stop following me. Time will show
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Re: Stalker on net

Postby Hallusinating » Sat Mar 03, 2012 6:21 am

N has changed his IP adresse, now when i check it it says that no one has it any more?

If he was the owner the IP adresse he had before then i know that he worked with technology in a university. So it might be that he is really good with computers?

Then again why would highly acclaimed teacher from a university do something like that??? And why did he have so many IP addresses? It was several adresses when i checked for the source of his emails, two lead to US and one (the original in the header lead to Malaysia).

He said he was from Malaysia.
He didn`t really contact me we sorta just met each other in a forum, so i can`t really say he was scamming me.

Maybe he is protecting his marriage because he saw that i was doing some research and he want to keep his identity hidden, but i have already discovered his Id???
His IP was static so i am a bit baffled...
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Re: Stalker on net

Postby masquerade » Sat Mar 03, 2012 2:04 pm

Cracked is right. This is a complex situation which is drawing you in, and obviously causing you a great deal of distress. My advice would be to change all your passwords on every site that you visit on line, close your membership to certain sites, collect all the information that you have and show the police. I hope this works out well for you.
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Re: Stalker on net

Postby Hallusinating » Sun Mar 04, 2012 10:05 am

masquerade wrote:Cracked is right. This is a complex situation which is drawing you in, and obviously causing you a great deal of distress. My advice would be to change all your passwords on every site that you visit on line, close your membership to certain sites, collect all the information that you have and show the police. I hope this works out well for you.


I don`t believe hiding is the solution here....

I have a problem because i have the feeling that his IP address was fake and that it lead to another person then who he stated himself to be..

His IP address had a strange coding that could imply something very secret...
After it got closed i got some ideas what that code might mean.

I think its a person who is married and that is why this is getting so complicated, not only is he married but he is old and that makes him very afraid to leave his wife, who is more then half his age younger.

I don`t think i met him totally coincidental in that page that day, i think his wife has started to realize just what the deal with him was, and that it wasn`t just sunshine days with expenses covered, but also a very old man that she had been dating-and then got married to.

When she got married to him, she also got married to his money which is now holding her back from divorcing-and the fact that he has been taking so good care of her, so her guilt just won`t allow to. And he probably doesn`t want to part with neither his money, her or his pride in this case.

So that is why he is so angry with me because i would give his wife a perfect excuse for leaving him.
She could either choose to leave him or forgive him for being part of a fantasy-as that is nearly all that was. But of course his neurotic side takes over for his sanity.

I think its hard to respond to this as i have absolutely no proof what so ever...
It could also be that he is just a scammer who happened to meet me?

But like i said, i was the one initiating most of the contact seeing as i thought he was someone else.

Its a very complicated case and you are making it even more complicated with your speculations as i think the best thing to do is just forget about it, so i would like if you stopped giving me dumb suggestions about what to do, as that suggestion doesn`t prove any thing, and you probably knew that already or else you wouldn`t make that suggestion in the first place....

The guy on internet is clearly having a masquerade with me, i have felt some sort of a presence of him in here too as he has been following me around a lot on different net pages.

Its a very complicated case- i have one man in a internet place who has stated that he has had sex with me on his mind, another man in the same page has stated that he has seen me in two different pages by quoting things i have said in them.

In some way this reminds me of a relationship i had with a much older man many years ago...
He had completely white hair, he was my boss that is how we became friends.

He was my superior but i didn`t really have anything directly to do with him (unless on seldom shifts where he was some sort of a mentor in case needed).

He befriended me on the bus on the way to work one morning, and we became good friends.

I liked him.

Then as our friendship evolved he asked me out for dinner etc..

Soon i realized he was interested in more then just a friendship and it made me feel very uncomfortable both because of his age and his marriage.

He started to stalk me when i said i didn`t want to have contact with him any more.

It took me a long time of patience to get him to understand that i never wanted to have sex with and in the end i had to be harsh with him, since he clearly didn`t listen when i was being polite....


I could have contacted his wife about my suspicion, i had his text messages on my phone and she probably could figure out where they were coming from, but thankfully he gave up before i came to that.
I apologize if i sound harsh in this comment but like you already stated this is a complicated relationship...

If that IP address has been closed then there probably is little or nothing the police will do. The way police work in my country is that they won`t take a case unless its really serious aka serious threats etc..this is also probably the case for searching after the owner of that old IP address...

Perhaps the police will come up empty/inconclusive, then what?????

I have asked around about his IP address and all i got for answer was that it might not be real, so i am not exactly in a good position to go to the police.

What if the police find out that his IP address belong to someone famous? Will they automatically close the case????


I don`t feel i have a strong case despite me seeing a provocative/threatening picture, (which has now been deleted since the forum where he posted it has been closed). So if we ever got to the place of real confrontation it would maybe just be word against word any ways.... :evil:


It doesn`t really help to put down my accounts, and being online is all the social life i get.
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