Stalker on net

I have a stalker on net who i know is masturbating to my pictures because he has told me.

I have tried to block him from my email but certain sites i cannot block him from and it makes me feel very uncomfortable.

He is often rude and abusive towards me in both his language and pics(he sent me a pic of a real headless woman)

I have reported his IP adresse and i know who he is, but i don`t what else to do?

If i tell him to leave he doesn`t listen.

Who did you report his IP address to?

I think it would be reasonable for you to go to the police with evidence of what he has done and tell them you have fears for your safety.

Sorry you are going through this

Cracked

CrackedGirl wrote:Who did you report his IP address to?

I only wrote a comment about it on a page where u can do that anonymously.

CrackedGirl wrote:I think it would be reasonable for you to go to the police with evidence of what he has done and tell them you have fears for your safety.

To begin with i don`t fear for my life since i know who he is after searching and because we are so far away from each other.

I know this stalking is something he doesn`t want out in public, he has mentioned he is married, he is full of jokes, so one minute he was single the next he was married.

It started out as chatting but then he got closer and demanded me to keep my facebook profile open which made me feel very uncomfterable. He has also suggested that i should be his mistress which is something i said no to.

I am thinking about contacting his co workers since i found his work place by searching.

First, make some fake threats.

Threat 1)
Your friend is a hacker and can do some messed up stuff to people's internet and computer. Although I wouldn't place a bet that this would work because if he is a hacker as well, it can create retaliation.

Threat 2)
State that the police are monitoring your internet and whoever connects to you.
Receiving unwanted images of snuff (headless woman) is a good enough reason why police will be monitoring for activity.

You must sound secured and connected.

He is behaving in quite an extreme manner and still think that telling the police would be a good idea whether or not he is near you. Telling his coworkers is also a good idea I think.

Cracked

Thank you for your feedback and your advices.

you are welcome. I really hope you find a solution to this.

Cracked

I want to explain this problem a bit better...

There are several people involved in this problem so i will just use their initial to easier explain what is going on.

It started when i met J on a web page, he flirted with me and we ended up in a online affair that got heavy.
I was speaking to several people on net and didn`t know where the flirtatious signals were coming from, i felt as if someone desperatly wanted to contact me "for real" but thru the internet.(bit difficult to explain but it involves some sexual activities..)
So i wondered who this person could be and started to search for him online when i sent a message to D because i thought he was behind it.
It wasn`t D but he answered with a video that could mean many things.
So something allusive was going on online.
Then i met N in a different web place, he was anonymous and i mistook him for being J...
I had a clear suspicion that told me that it was J who was fantasising about me..and he had included me involuntarily into his dreams.
I involved N into my dreams because he "looked" like J.

N had like all males a perverted mind and probably liked some of the attention i gave to him, but he was also complaining about it.

Then there is S, he was suspected to be J since he has "followed" me on some web sites.
He is not totally cleared of all guilt but i know he wasn`t actively sexually involved with me. But i do know that he quotes me from different sites on his web page, which i found a bit weird and creepy.

Maybe he did it to be nice to me but with everything else going on it only made him a suspect in something else.

J admitted that he was sexually involved in something with me.

N also admitted being sexually involved with me.

It might be that we are all twined in to each other?

J is dating a woman in real life, but i don`t know if he still has fantasies?

I know someone is still having fantasies but i don`t know who?

I have talked to N and told him about the misunderstanding, but i think he can still be angry about this?
Or is it J who is angry?

I was angry with J for a long time since he involved me into his fantasy and i told him i was angry.
Maybe he is angry back?
He is very angry because i said some nasty things to him because of his bad behaviour towards me.

You don`t include other people into your own sexual fantasies online and then just leave them!

I am still very confused in my head after this. I have stopped chatting with N for a while ago but he might be following me online? He demanded me to keep my facebook profile open and sent me a angry picture of a woman with her head torn off, so i know he is angry/aggressive. He has also given me a comment that was mean.
He has also said that he is both single and married!?
So i don`t really know what he is?
Obviously i know that if he was married and i did this to him it would make him feel very angry, but then again he has to take some of the blame for it himself, he knew that i thought he was someone else the whole time we were talking online. He seemed to have calmed himself down at the end of our long conversation. So i am still not sure if its really him who is angry or J? I guess its because this is all J`s fault for doing to me in the beginning.

Your last post was too confusing and complicated to follow. However my advice to you is to stop talking to anyone you dont know. Don't look for guys on the internet. Get a real relationship and stop talking to the creepers online. And DONT meet these freaks! Also telling the coworkers is a BAD idea. First of all they are not going to want to get involved. Second it would just make him even more mad at you. Third, if they knew it could possibly put them in danger if he really is dangerous.

One thing I would say is please dont follow N's request to keep your FB profile open - it is not a good idea, even if you dont have ppl following you. In addition you could report him to the FB team for the pic he sent you as that is sick.

Cracked