by Wally58 » Sun Jun 10, 2018 2:39 pm
A neighbor found out that having facebook, social media and using internet dating sites kept the stalker on her tail. Even changing accounts, she could be traced by friends of friends. I don't even think that it's possible to 'fully' delete a facebook account.
You may lose some conveniences that social media provides, but a probable solution is to get off all and any social media. It is archived, so it never fully goes away.
Google is a search engine. If you can be googled, you can be found.
The police tried to be helpful, but referred her to her ISP and phone provider. She was convinced that her phone was being tapped (and maybe it was). The phone provider checked her phone and declared it clean.
There was an order of protection in place, but nothing could be proven or disproven.
Her paranoia about the stalker was destroying her life and driving the people who cared about her, away from her. It was all she could talk about and it consumed her.
She also suspected her friends of providing her stalker with her latest information. Leaks. I don't have any permanent solution. Maybe the stalker will lose interest and move on.
She moved out eventually.
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