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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Wed Apr 29, 2015 7:34 am

It's not because of that (though I certainly find it unflattering that such a male with such a mate thought he was 'qualified' to get with me)...because I was freaked out BEFORE I even knew the creep had a partner, let alone the kind of partner he had. I thought he had nobody, actually, given his extremely desperate behavior and the fact that he is not appealing in any way whatsoever.

Anyhow an update of what's happened since my last posting, which is a lot: our lawyer told us the creep has to do something for us to take legal action. Given what's happened recently, it's only a matter of time he will mess up his sorry life again if he continues with the harassment. We talked to the manager today about what the creep has been doing from over a year ago. He was a good listener and said he would talk to the creep. He obviously was/is aware of the creep's felony background given his not even raising an eyebrow when I brought it up. I said he better knock it off because even though it would mean disclosing there is a sexually harassing convicted felon maintenance man if we were to sell in the future, and would possibly make selling harder/get a lower price, I WILL file an official complaint if I have to.

Until recently the creep got the message and behaved himself, but true to form, he escalated again but this time behaving in a crazy, aggressive way. This despite the fact I'm holding my device to film him, which he can clearly see yet it didn't faze him now. Like he's lost it and just can't hold back. Or doesn't give a damn. Unfortunately the recent couple encounters I have and saved, aren't useful as I was walking too fast and the action is blurred. I rush walk away from this weird pervert!

What he has been doing is making offensive hooting and hollering noises and swearing (heard a "f*ck" loud and clear) whenever I pass by/am around and there's no witnesses, in fact he starts these obnoxious vocalizations even before I cross his path but he knows I can hear, as the workroom he is almost always in/near is right in front of our parking spaces. He is back to blatantly staring and leering as well, bold as brass, it seems out of of defiance and malice as if telling me "I know you can't stand me but I'm gonna leer at you like a piece of meat and freak you out and you can't stop me, neener neener nah nah!"

I have posted scathing reviews of the condo on Yelp!, Facebook, etc, which are highly critical of and expose the creep's improper sexualized conduct towards me, and warning any attractive, single/seemingly unattached women, to watch out for this pervert if they move here. We think maybe the creep saw the review/s and that's why he escalated (again), it's the only way he can vent since he would hardly complain to the manager/board and get them to try to yank the review/s, as he likely wouldn't want them to see it. And he probably might not complain to friends/family since he may not want them to view it as well, especially if the former do not know of his criminal background, which my reviews directly allude to. But if he has not seen any of the reviews and he's acting like this, oh man. But it's plausible he would escalate regardless, given the kind of character he's revealed himself to be to us, and his piss-poor judgement and low impulse control. It's why he screwed up his life by being a felon, and clearly has not learned any lessons.

We also discovered another unflattering revelation about him, which continues to confirm what a lying perverted freak he is. He posted a review/rating on one of the condo's Facebook page (there are 2 separate ones), but did so using an alias identity which shows what a major weirdo he is. He uses his picture in his profile, but goes by another name entirely...and when you click on this profile, it shows more whoppers. Claimed to be half his age (18 when almost 40), elevates his job title (says he is maintenance "supervisor" when there is only 1 other maintenance man lol), lies about his birthplace. On top of that there are numerous sleazy selfies of him (1 of his erect penis tenting his pants, ugh! with his face and tacky as hell tattoo in the shot) and his sexual comments attached.

We discovered at about this time last year when he first escalated his attentions, he either was broken up or in the process of doing so with his other half. In fact, in 1 of the sleazy pics around that time on his fantasist profile, he states "I like being single but I need someone to fool around with". Further proof of just how desperate for tail the creep was and why he was so hot to trot after me, having lusted after me from the start and viewing me as safe fair game since I appeared to be single and with no male in the household. That profile was set up in 2012 when he was with his mate so he was trying to find women to cheat with even while they were an item.

It's good he's stupid and so public online with his lies and sleazy behavior, while it may not prove anything legally, it certainly supports what we're saying about the kind of shady, gross person he is. What employee deliberately sets out to present a bad image for his employer/company? And also wants residents and colleagues to see and click on his alter ego profile which shows him in all his sleazy glory? Took screenshots in case he deletes that utterly disturbing, fantasist profile. It's like the Twilight Zone. How does someone get to be THIS weird and creepy?? Not only is this creep a desperate to be someone and a wannabe player who is screaming for attention as it's obvious he feels severely insecure and inadequate to tell such huge lies, we believe he is truly mentally ill and totally f*cked in the head given his behavior and everything we know about him.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Thu Apr 30, 2015 8:43 pm

A new development: the creep has not only deleted the rating he posted on the condo's Facebook page, he has also deleted that sleazy lying fantasist profile! He is obviously in panic and 'damage control' mode, getting rid of anything incriminating online that makes him look bad. Good thing I took screenshots for documentation in this very event, otherwise I wouldn't have the evidence and ammunition to show what an inappropriate, hypersexed lying weirdo the creep is. Almost certain he HAS seen the review I posted on Facebook, which as I mentioned may have caused this recent aggressive escalation but I wasn't going to keep quiet any longer about his unprofessional behavior and felt it my duty to warn other attractive women who are or appear to be single about his sexually predatory behavior.

We'll see if he behaves himself in the long-term. I'm highly dubious given this is the 2nd time he's escalated and with his lack of self-control, having thin skin/a chip on his shoulder and being very spiteful and insecure, I don't think he can do it. It really would be best if he could get another job elsewhere because I'm sure it's going to be tough for him to not go off on me whenever he sees me (not to mention if I never saw this creepy weirdo again, it won't be too soon!). Although it he does ever get a job elsewhere, unless there are only men and elderly women there, there's no guarantee he wouldn't do this again.

And anyhow, in this economy what employer/company is going to hire a 40 year old with a felony criminal background and menial skills/basic qualifications when they can hire someone younger and/or, most importantly, WITHOUT a criminal record that could pose a liability if he gets into trouble on the job, as indeed the creep has done.

According to my research, previous to working here, he was employed at a marine surveying company. I don't think there is any way we could ever find out that information but we would love to know if he was dismissed/left because he sexually harassed someone. We strongly suspect that is the case. If he left because he wanted a better position and/or pay, then he would've moved on from here for something bigger and better. He's been here several years already and it's obvious from his online lies and fantasist persona (pretending to be 20 years younger, lying about his job position/title) he wants to be important and is embarrassed being a 40 year old maintenance man with, from what it appears...no car but just a cheapie moped that a teenager or college kid would drive, living in a crummy walkup apartment in a crummy area and probably nothing (much) in the way of savings and assets...so if he had left his previous job for legit reasons, then he would also have moved on to greener pastures instead of staying put here. I think we're correct in deducing that he did something bad and got dismissed. Just as he did something bad here!
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Tue May 05, 2015 2:01 am

The creep is even more deranged than we even thought possible. He is truly unbelievable. After his talking to by the manager, after which he obviously panicked and deleted the rating review of the condo AND his sleazy lying fantasist profile...he has reactivated the account, thus reinstating the profile as well as the rating!

I had a strong hunch he was going to do this, that he wouldn't be able to 'let go' of his beloved fantasy identity. It's clearly everything he wishes he was...much younger and better job position, and pretending to be the flamboyant playboy he badly wishes to be (you just know this sleazy creep would do anything to be Hugh Hefner or Dan Bilzerian). But to reactivate it after only a few days after deleting it...sheesh, truly has no self-control nor common sense. I believe Facebook gives you 2 weeks to reinstate your profile after deleting it, yet unsurprisingly, he couldn't even wait that short period of time for the heat to die down, so to speak.

But it's good he did this because it supports everything I'm asserting about him and shows all the residents and staff who happen to visit that page the hypersexed creepy pervert I've experienced. In fact, I will likely amend my review and mention that folks need to take a look at it. He isn't able to separate fantasy from reality and has brought that disgusting sex maniac persona into the workplace, not only with his harassment of me but also using that identity to post on the condo's page. Probably the reason being he is deranged enough to think female residents will see it and his (sexy, in his lunatic mind) pictures, and want to get with him. It doesn't occur to him everyone will think him scarily warped and weird to lie about his name, age, job position and nationality (pretending to be Italian and adopting an "Italian Stallion" stud persona). What a big freak.

It's one thing to have a "double life" or pretend persona; but what person deliberately injects it into their real/professional existence? Only a crazy person would 'co-mingle' the two on purpose. Or lacks the control to keep them separate.

Wouldn't be surprised if he goes back and forth and deletes it again and reinstates his fantasist wishful thinking profile again, and so forth. He clearly has an extremely abnormal, bizarre thought process. Not that we didn't already know that!
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Thu Jun 04, 2015 3:49 pm

We spoke to the manager again and he is nothing but a partisan for his guy; protective, defensive, making excuses, turning it around on me by victim-blaming...implying I'm being paranoid, hysterical, irrational and egotistical to think the creep would behave unprofessionally like this towards me. Um, while I'm definitely not a great beauty because those are rare, I was/am widely regarded as very attractive and keep in mind context is everything. If this were some filthy rich, very powerful, incredibly handsome and/or mega-famous man I was accusing, the kind of man who extreme beauties flock to, yes I could see the manager saying I'm not all that. But I *am all that* in spades for the likes of the creep, who couldn't attract/get a remotely attractive woman if his life depended on it (sex workers don't count as that is a strictly business transaction, not a relationship or fwb or f*ckship). Which is why and no wonder he regarded me as if I was a goddess, compared to what he can get I certainly must have seemed like a huge trophy he hoped to bed, ugh.

The manager said the creep told him he's never been interested in me :roll: As the saying goes "liar liar pants on fire". I WISH he wasn't ever interested in me. He freaks me out and is hardly enhancing to let anyone know the creep wanted me, so no way I would lie. It's because I found the situation so unbearable I had to "make waves". If he was so uninterested why always obnoxiously ogling and leering at me, and deliberately encountering me. Of course he has to deny it, he could not admit he was attracted and may have behaved inappropriately. And he knows the manager is a sympathetic biased audience. The manager suggested I just don't like the way the creep looks. Yes I find him effing repulsive, he looks like Dr. Sivana but it's because of his behavior, sheesh. If it was only based on a guy's unappealing looks, then I would be accusing many males. He is the only one who has creeped me out majorly. No other male ever raised my hackles like this, and I used to engage in some very risky behavior (all alone hooking up with strange men in foreign countries). So the fact he creeps me out like this means my radar is telling me something.

Anyhow we talked again to the manager because we thought the creep was harassing yet again. We came back and as I was driving into the entry of the parking garage, a vehicle was coming the *wrong* way towards me. Turns out it was a construction worker and the creep was there "directing traffic", that's why he was hanging around and didn't leave when the vehicle had cleared us safely. The manager was there along with some construction workers and to them, since this is the only "encounter" they saw, unfortunately we came off looking in the wrong and the creep the poor persecuted victim. What they haven't seen is all the other LEGIT incidences leading up to this that caused us to naturally assume the creep was purposely being an ass.

So we admit we were mistaken about this recent occurrence. Then the "bedlam" began. I presented him with screenshots of the creep's fantasist pervert persona and the condo's FB page he posted on with it, and he acted like it was no big deal, and so what if it shows he's a liar/fantasist cause everyone lies. Everytime I kept telling him: but why would he want residents to know this by posting with this profile, what a perverted creep and weirdo he is, and the manager just kept making excuses and justifying the creep's behavior by saying he himself could do that and it doesn't mean anything. It was maddening talking with him. And yea right, I'm sure his wife and teen daughter would looove it if he were to make a sexual public spectacle jackass of himself like the creep :roll: He was obviously trying to legitimize and normalize the creep's bizarreness. He asked to keep the screenshots (I printed them on film) and I agreed.

He then did the classic victim-shaming/gaslighting thing by saying my filming is provoking the creep and is making him upset and angry as he the manager would be, and that other residents have noticed me carrying my device and filming, and moving skittishly, and it's making *them* uneasy. So I tell him it's cause the creep made me so freaked out and if he didn't misbehave I wouldn't be acting like this, and need to be recording everytime for my protection and proof when I go out/come back if it's during his shift. The manager still kept going on about my behavior. So I agreed to chill and no longer be filming. I think I spoke to soon because while I meant it at the time, I changed my mind, and the creep will probably take it as carte blanche to perv on me full force as I'm sure the manager will tell him I've agreed not to "document" him anymore.

I am going to purchase a body cam so it won't be obvious I'm filming as I won't be having to hold it. Problem solved, it's discreet so folks won't feel edgy, and I can still have my protection and obtain proof...if the creep believes I've stopped filming he may revert back to his predatory self.
But until I decide on a good one and receive it, I'm either going to tell the manager if the creep starts again, I'm going to film again. Or I may just film as usual despite saying I'd stop and if the manager says something, I'd be tempted to say bitingly, "well people lie. That's what you said when I showed you the creep's fantasist persona packed with whoppers".

No surprise, the creep deleted his fantasist profile and hence the rating, again. Wonder if he will resurrect it yet again. We shall see. It doesn't matter if he lets it go for good because too late, I have it all saved to a memory card and can print as many copies as I need to.

The manager said he thinks I'm brooding and obsessing over this too much. I told him it's because I LIVE here and cannot avoid seeing and encountering this character, he's on the brain. It's not like some random creep on the street or at a club or bar that you won't see again and can easily forget about. Unfortunately he said the creep's not going anywhere...yea no sh!t, he isn't going to get fired unless I get hard proof, and he certainly won't move on to a better job with his past and lack of specialized/desired qualifications.

Anyway, for all I know the manager could be lying about other residents finding my filming unsettling. I wouldn't be surprised if he is lying about that in a ploy to get me to stop. I'm also tempted to ask him just *who* are these people, and if they don't want to come forward over such a trivial matter which is clearly not directed at them, then maybe there are other victim/s of the creep and *they* are unwilling to speak up about this much more serious, sensitive matter. Especially given the often hard to prove nature of sexual harassment. Most women don't report sexual harassment and just keep quiet and take it.

So while we didn't and would not want to escalate this into a legal matter and will do everything to avoid it, I have to say after our talk with the manager which we found dismissive, condescending, insulting, infuriating, flippant...I have started researching sexual harassment attorneys just in case. Would not want to have to scramble at the last minute to find a good lawyer. Have already contacted several of them. I'm curious as to whether they also will be of the same opinion as the manager that the creep's felony record and fantasist profile means nothing. I doubt it...the manager has every reason to downplay those things. As my confidant said when I unloaded on him about this, our manager is circling the wagons.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Sat Jun 06, 2015 8:27 am

I've also posted additional reviews for the Association/Property Management company. If they had not given the green light to hire a convicted felon, this wouldn't have happened. They are initially responsible. See what happens when they be a bleeding heart and offer "second chances" to a felon? Unless getting damaging reviews/bad pr and/or potential lawsuits are worth it. Dumb business decision.

I attached screenshots to all my reviews so folks can see the creep's sexual inappropriateness. If the manager hears of the reviews and ever mentions the screenshots, I'm going to toss his words right at him and tell him since he told me they mean nothing and doesn't make the creep look bad, why does he have a problem my posting them? Can't have it both ways. Of course he was pretending they aren't incriminating in any way and hoped I'm gullible enough to buy it. Nope!

The manager made things worse. Because of his insensitive handling, I took these additional actions. Tried to accuse me of being paranoid by saying "EVERYBODY is not looking at and interested in you". I never said "everybody" and he knows it, just this ONE creep but nice try attempting to paint me as paranoid and delusional. Had the gall to say things like this happen in fiction, hardly ever in real life and he doesn't know any woman who's been sexually harassed. Just because he doesn't know anyone this happened to, so what? I don't know anyone who's been murdered so does that mean there's no such thing as murder? Jerk.

He also said there are other single (seeming) women who live here and none of them complained. Again, so what? Do straight male rapists rape every female they encounter...do child molesters molest every child they come across?? Of course not. They pick their victims usually out of opportunism and/or if they seem weak and vulnerable. Those other females may not be attractive, or not seem a safe target as I was (I appear demure and not a loudmouthed b!tch). The creep wrongly judged this book by its cover. They may be too old/elderly for his liking and/or too young (jailbait and he would look like a pedo) so he wouldn't target those. Many women never complain at all. And even if there were other/s who told the manager, I wouldn't know about it. I'm sure we all would be made to believe we're the only ones, never being aware there are others.

I also added in my reviews my email for any female residents to feel free to contact me if they have been harassed by the creep. It's a longshot but the only possible way to reach out to other victim/s.

Funny how the person with a completely clean criminal background and no history of visiting a mental health professional nor ever been prescribed psychoactive medication, is regarded as a troublemaking crazy liar...but the person who is a convicted felon (and proven liar with a giving false information to authorities offense on his record) and has been shown to be sexually unprofessional by posting with his fantasist persona, is deemed the poor wrongfully accused victim. But to be expected, as any admittance of impropriety would result in a firing and solid grounds for a lawsuit.

Still, it backfired using bully-boy tactics hoping to intimidate me. Had he been more sympathetic and sensitive, I wouldn't have got fired up. His defense was so passionate, ridiculous and over the top. Like he was in love with the creep lol. I almost told him that just to get a dig at him for being such an ass.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Sun Jun 07, 2015 11:09 am

The creep reinstated his pervert persona yet again, and his rating/post is back on the condo's Association of Apartment Owners Facebook page. He obviously saw and this is in reaction to my posting a review on there. This latest action shows what a totally brazen, deranged individual he is. Any normal, sane person would know by having that rating up which they posted as an employee but using a pervert persona, makes them look bad but more so in light of the fact there's now my review there which points out how sleazy and unprofessional it is and made him appear. This action shows he doesn't give a damn about that at all, and/or is just so mad about my review that he doesn't care but by resurrecting his pervert persona/rating, it just confirms to everyone who sees it what a creepy weirdo he is. Folks will click on his profile and see all the slime and sleaze there. It really makes him look terrible and shows the hypersexed weirdo he is, yet his need for revenge on me because he saw my review is so great, he doesn't care.

This demonstrates he still has extremely poor self/impulse control and I (still) have to watch out for him. Obviously the manager talking to him again fell on deaf ears, he is not concerned at all as any employee who's accused of sexual harassment and has a felony record would be, if they had truly reformed and truly were innocent of what I'm accusing him of. Nobody who's not lying would be able to claim his recent action is rational and indicative of a wrongfully accused person. Instead, it shows how majorly effed in the head he is and is effing with me big time, toying with me and hoping to freak me out. Just like the predator he is.

Nice try but this didn't freak me out at all; I've come to expect bizarreness from this psycho. It will be interesting to see how he behaves *in person* though towards me. I fully expect him to act like a sexually harassing creep again and total ass. No way this maniac has the discipline to control himself in person, especially since he knows the manager will go to bat for him. I actually hope he does do something stupid and truly blatant that I can nail him on finally because I am weary of being in a situation where he creeps and freaks me out but has not actually crossed the line for me to file a police report/get a restraining order/go to court/him being fired. Until then, I'm going to have to exist in this limbo. But for sure I'm going to go back to filming, esp after this latest behavior. And I'm not talking to the manager anymore about this matter, it clearly does no good and he just defends his boy. I'm going to deal with this on my own from now on.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby seabreezeblue » Mon Jun 08, 2015 9:53 am

This all sounds seriously stressful for you *C*..

How are you doing aside from this? (healthwise etc)

I'm just thinking here that because you're being seen filming this guy and are making so many complaints about him that you need to be really careful.. the problem is that your behaviour is going to be seen as difficult and if no-one sees the guy doing anything wrong, the police would be forced to restrict your behaviour..
Please consider dialing it down a bit and keep yourself occupied as much as possible with other things..
stay patient.. stay careful.. but stay calm as well - your health is important and the stress is bad for you.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Tue Jun 09, 2015 6:25 am

Thanks for asking. This has been very stressful. I feel like a character in one of those fairy tale type stories, who is apprehensive of crossing the bridge which they must pass to leave/return home, because there is a troll which lurks underneath waiting to pounce. That's how I view and feel about the creep, a troll under the bridge I desperately want to avoid. As I mentioned, it doesn't help that I/we have to pass the main workroom where he works out of, as unfortunately our assigned parking spaces are in front of it. Talk about sh!tty luck, out of all the parking ours had to be located there. We could and have gone out the other door to avoid passing that workroom even though it's out of our way, but stopped since sometimes we *still* would encounter him, again sh!tty luck and timing that he happened to be there.

Encounters and sightings of him are unavoidable because the footprint and grounds of this building are so small, it's a very narrow, tall condo. Even when we previously lived in condos that were wide with sprawling grounds, we would see the maintenance men regularly (which was fine since they were professional and didn't behave improperly). Point being, given the small footprint of this place, there is absolutely no avoiding encountering/seeing the creep around. I am going to continue filming but I'm not going to do it blatantly as before, by holding my device in my hand. Instead, until I purchase a body cam I've rigged a small camera phone and am going to use it as a makeshift body cam. It seems to work and is discreet enough.

Im aware of coming off the bad guy here. Unfortunately due to the nature of sexual harassment, unless it's of the blatant variety, it's difficult to prove as there's no concrete evidence and the harassing behaviors can be dismissed as "misunderstandings", "misinterpretations" and the like. It is something which "outsiders" who are not the recipient of such attention and not experiencing it, cannot see. To them the offending actions sound innocent and meaningless enough. I've done extensive research/reading on sexual harassment so I know all about the hardships there are.

However, if the creep/manager tried to get me into trouble with the authorities, which I wouldn't put past those snakes, there are some things I believe would help support my version. I kept all the emails from last year (when the creep escalated his behavior from "mere" ogling to actions which made me alarmed and threatened) with the Bureau of Prisons (in the state where the creep was incarcerated) and the condo Association, where I expressed my concerns to them. And of course, his pervert profile he used to post on the AOAO Facebook page makes him look totally sex-starved (which he is), which only supports my claims about his sexually harassing behavior, and it shows what an inappropriate person he is bringing that pervert persona into a professional capacity. You use/post with that kind of profile (shirtless pics, sleazy/propositioning comments) on places like sex sites, certainly not your employer's Facebook page!

Even though I don't put it past them to play dirty, they really need to be careful themselves because if they decide to take this to a legal matter first, they'll also have to be prepared for the adverse attention it'll bring. It's one thing if *I'm* the one to initiate legal action because then of course they have to and will defend themselves, but if *they* are the initiators, then the burden of proof is on them and they legally are "opening the door". It would become widely known among the residents and beyond about the creep being a convicted felon, as well as his pervert persona and inappropriately posting with it. And worse case scenario, in court a defense attorney could easily point out how my behavior is typical and indicative of the trauma of a sexual harassment victim, the hypervigilance...the filming, looking all around, rush-walking.

As for my complaints, my two to the manager weren't formal, on the record documented complaints. The reason being I don't want to open that door yet since the onus would be on me, and I know I don't have a strong case unfortunately. As for my online reviews, that's my 1st amendment right, and they can try to threaten me with libel (almost impossible to prevail) or defamation of character, but that still would be hard to stick since everything I say is true, they cannot prove it's untrue which is what is required, along with other factors. Besides which, they would bring far more attention and exposure to my reviews if they do ever take legal action over it. The manager would also come off looking bad and get negative exposure as well, since I revised my reviews to include his disgraceful conduct in handling this matter.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Mon Jun 15, 2015 4:15 am

I got contacted by someone who lived in another property managed by the same company. They had posted a scathing review on the Association as well, due to a similar issue of a staff member being a perverted creep (who would steal the man's girlfriend's panties from their premises), which they caught on camera but the Association did nothing and sided with him. He retaliated against them for complaining by destroying their outdoor decorations, threw rubbish into their property, reported them for phony infractions, spied inside their windows to scare them (even doing so at night using a flashlight). Oh yea, as with the creep, "their" creep also had a criminal record. And even though they lodged a formal complaint and there were other people *at the very same property* who had the same/similar issue/s with this employee and backed them up on the record, still nothing was done about the problematic employee.

What this shows is the Association has a problem in their hiring and screening practices by employing and giving clearance to unsavory, disreputable types (like criminals/felons). And even when there is solid, indisputable video proof and corroboration by others of illegal, unprofessional conduct, they ignore the wrongdoing and will never admit to any impropriety for (valid) fear it will be used against them in potential litigation.

What this means for me, which I already decided on before this gentleman contacted me, is I am not going to go to the manager again, and most definitely not the condo board and Association as well. They will react the exact same way the manager did--downplaying, defensive, dismissive, denials...it's the modus operandi of all these managers/boards/property management companies and I refuse to be treated so outrageously and offensively again when *I'm* the one who's telling the truth and the victim here, but regarded as the villain(ess). I am just going to continue as I have by monitoring and documenting the situation and will contact the police if/when the creep crosses the line and does something blatantly stupid.

And as expected, the creep has been constantly deleting and reinstating his pervert persona/rating...now you see it, now you don't, now you see it again, now it's gone again! After my extensive investigating and "profiling" of him, I have a good read on how this impulsive, defiant, sex-crazed, desperate, insecure loser creep operates. He constantly gets angry and spiteful I *dared* expose him/his behavior, but thinks better of it and deletes his persona/rating, then swings back to furious again and reinstates, and back and forth. What. A. Freak.
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Re: Freaked out by bizarre, ex-con maintenance man (long)

Postby *C* » Wed Jul 29, 2015 8:40 am

The creep just crossed the line. What he has done is posted a review of his own on Yelp about the condo. Obviously he is effing with me again and this is his only way of lashing out and getting back. For all objective, unbiased persons who see our reviews, his proves my claims about what an unprofessional, creepy weirdo he is. Also makes him look like a vindictive unstable stalker, posting a review soon after I posted/updated mine. He included his picture in his profile pic, knowing viewers will see it is clearly the same creepy maintenance man I speak off in my review, with the attached screenshots. Proves his lunacy and not caring or clueless how deranged and bizarre he comes off.

I told my confidant about the creep's latest and he responded "instant dismissal". He is a boss in a top 5 largest company in its field, so he knows much about and has dealt with such matters. But even without getting his feedback about this recent revelation, I could see what the creep has done is going to land him in hot water. Although he doesn't mention me or the situation/my claims (guess he's not a *total* impulsive idiot) what he said in his review is grounds for immediate termination. He has totally trashed the manager by stating the manager is abusive and aggressive and treats him like sh!t, this is the worst job he's had, the manager is creating a hostile work environment and needs be replaced, and so on.

It's obvious the creep has completely lost the plot. For a staff member to post such a review blasting the manager on a public forum is job/career suicide. The interesting thing about his omitting any mention of me and my claims which he is pissed about and clearly the reason for posting, is either he is taking it out on the the manager instead of me/us...or what we think is just as/more likely, he is *also* now pissed at the manager in addition to us. Just as we ourselves also were/are furious with the manager for his horrid handling of this matter. We believe the creep was/is angry at the manager for giving him a verbal beat down about his behavior, which he downplayed to us but probably was incensed at the creep for such conduct, and inappropriately displayed publicly with his pervert persona on the condo's AOAO page.

Needless to say, I took screenshots of his latest unprofessional online antics. We aren't going to go to the manager and show it to him, we're done with that useless worthless buffoon. If he comes to us wanting to discuss the situation we may show it to him, depending on how things go. Like to see him downplay and dismiss *this* hehe...and looks terrible his own employee totally trashing him publicly! We won't mention it unless we feel we need to, as we would like to keep it as a "trump card" and want the creep's review to stay up as long as possible, so folks can see what a freak the creep is. Unless of course he deletes it, which is his pattern (along with reinstating it...and back and forth. Weirdo).

Well, as the manager dismissively and flippantly told us when we brought his attention to the creep's pervert persona on the AOAO page..."that's online", it doesn't matter because it's not at work. So the manager shouldn't get upset when he discovers the creep trashing him...after all, "it's online".

Anyhow, even if the manager manages to overlook this latest (rather, pretends to!), it adds to the ever growing pile of ammunition. ALL of which back up my assertions of how unprofessional the creep is. The manager/association best keep in mind that unlike them, if it ever came to it, the police and the courts do not have a vested interest in defending and protecting the creep, and all that he has done will be very damning in their eyes. The creep is a loose cannon, and if the manager was not so invested in saving face, he'd cut him loose before this troublemaker causes even more problems than he already has.
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