It's not because of that (though I certainly find it unflattering that such a male with such a mate thought he was 'qualified' to get with me)...because I was freaked out BEFORE I even knew the creep had a partner, let alone the kind of partner he had. I thought he had nobody, actually, given his extremely desperate behavior and the fact that he is not appealing in any way whatsoever.
Anyhow an update of what's happened since my last posting, which is a lot: our lawyer told us the creep has to do something for us to take legal action. Given what's happened recently, it's only a matter of time he will mess up his sorry life again if he continues with the harassment. We talked to the manager today about what the creep has been doing from over a year ago. He was a good listener and said he would talk to the creep. He obviously was/is aware of the creep's felony background given his not even raising an eyebrow when I brought it up. I said he better knock it off because even though it would mean disclosing there is a sexually harassing convicted felon maintenance man if we were to sell in the future, and would possibly make selling harder/get a lower price, I WILL file an official complaint if I have to.
Until recently the creep got the message and behaved himself, but true to form, he escalated again but this time behaving in a crazy, aggressive way. This despite the fact I'm holding my device to film him, which he can clearly see yet it didn't faze him now. Like he's lost it and just can't hold back. Or doesn't give a damn. Unfortunately the recent couple encounters I have and saved, aren't useful as I was walking too fast and the action is blurred. I rush walk away from this weird pervert!
What he has been doing is making offensive hooting and hollering noises and swearing (heard a "f*ck" loud and clear) whenever I pass by/am around and there's no witnesses, in fact he starts these obnoxious vocalizations even before I cross his path but he knows I can hear, as the workroom he is almost always in/near is right in front of our parking spaces. He is back to blatantly staring and leering as well, bold as brass, it seems out of of defiance and malice as if telling me "I know you can't stand me but I'm gonna leer at you like a piece of meat and freak you out and you can't stop me, neener neener nah nah!"
I have posted scathing reviews of the condo on Yelp!, Facebook, etc, which are highly critical of and expose the creep's improper sexualized conduct towards me, and warning any attractive, single/seemingly unattached women, to watch out for this pervert if they move here. We think maybe the creep saw the review/s and that's why he escalated (again), it's the only way he can vent since he would hardly complain to the manager/board and get them to try to yank the review/s, as he likely wouldn't want them to see it. And he probably might not complain to friends/family since he may not want them to view it as well, especially if the former do not know of his criminal background, which my reviews directly allude to. But if he has not seen any of the reviews and he's acting like this, oh man. But it's plausible he would escalate regardless, given the kind of character he's revealed himself to be to us, and his piss-poor judgement and low impulse control. It's why he screwed up his life by being a felon, and clearly has not learned any lessons.
We also discovered another unflattering revelation about him, which continues to confirm what a lying perverted freak he is. He posted a review/rating on one of the condo's Facebook page (there are 2 separate ones), but did so using an alias identity which shows what a major weirdo he is. He uses his picture in his profile, but goes by another name entirely...and when you click on this profile, it shows more whoppers. Claimed to be half his age (18 when almost 40), elevates his job title (says he is maintenance "supervisor" when there is only 1 other maintenance man lol), lies about his birthplace. On top of that there are numerous sleazy selfies of him (1 of his erect penis tenting his pants, ugh! with his face and tacky as hell tattoo in the shot) and his sexual comments attached.
We discovered at about this time last year when he first escalated his attentions, he either was broken up or in the process of doing so with his other half. In fact, in 1 of the sleazy pics around that time on his fantasist profile, he states "I like being single but I need someone to fool around with". Further proof of just how desperate for tail the creep was and why he was so hot to trot after me, having lusted after me from the start and viewing me as safe fair game since I appeared to be single and with no male in the household. That profile was set up in 2012 when he was with his mate so he was trying to find women to cheat with even while they were an item.
It's good he's stupid and so public online with his lies and sleazy behavior, while it may not prove anything legally, it certainly supports what we're saying about the kind of shady, gross person he is. What employee deliberately sets out to present a bad image for his employer/company? And also wants residents and colleagues to see and click on his alter ego profile which shows him in all his sleazy glory? Took screenshots in case he deletes that utterly disturbing, fantasist profile. It's like the Twilight Zone. How does someone get to be THIS weird and creepy?? Not only is this creep a desperate to be someone and a wannabe player who is screaming for attention as it's obvious he feels severely insecure and inadequate to tell such huge lies, we believe he is truly mentally ill and totally f*cked in the head given his behavior and everything we know about him.