I am a stalker

Smoke34 wrote:Went to some psychologist. Looks like I'm just a bruised ego loser.

Really well done man! Way to go and keep up with it! Once the bruised ego issue is dealt with I'm sure everything will be gravy!

Smoke34 wrote: Did you ever forgive your stalker? Would you be friends with him if he wanted to?

Sometimes, if you leave them alone, they might want to be friends with you if they knew and liked you before this current behavior. Though it will take time. It may or may not happen. Though if it does, it will happen by them approaching you on their terms. If you approach them, you may trigger hostile feelings in them, that they are being stalked.

Smoke34 wrote: But why? Stalkers can't really help themselves. He did mistakes and maybe he is sorry. Doesn't he deserve a chance?

I'm friends still with this girl who stalked me. I didn't talk to her for the longest time. She just pushed me away by her obsessive need to be in my presence, and dominate my social life. She couldn't get that she was just way too damned young for me. Don't be discouraged by most people not understanding you, and some wouldn't give their stalker a second thought as a friend with good reasons. While not all are bad people, some are.

Also, stalkers can help themselves if they try. And they do deserve a chance when they learn to interact in more socially acceptable ways. Some people give chances, other people don't.

It's good you're not seeing a therapist about this. I'm proud of you!

If you leave her alone, and she sees you every day, she might miss you and want to be friends again. You never know. It may also not happen, you never know. So don't think about it as you'll never get to speak to her again. Try to focus on other things, especially focus on your future and becoming the man you want to be!

Good for you, Smoke34. That was a hard thing you did and it demonstrated maturity, courage, and responsibility.

Tomorrow's Mayday, she's gonna dance with another boy, I can't take it, I'll kill her... I'm sorry people, it has to be this way, we have to die together. It will symbolize our eternal love

You absolutely do not want to do that. Leave these people alone.

When I start to feel like this I get in my car and go for a drive. I put on "No Easy Way Out" from the Rocky IV soundtrack and I just drive. If he'd just thrown in the towel Apollo might still be here, man. Why didn't he just throw in the towel?

But it's too late; Apollo is gone. And now there's no easy way out and all Rocky can do is shift his Lamborghini into a higher gear and race even faster through the night.

You're bigger than this, Smoke. Sometimes we don't get to beat 'em. Sometimes all we get to do is take our lumps and find solace in the fact that we took 'em. They didn't take 'em. We did. She didn't take 'em. You did.

This will pass if you let it.

Too late, I've killed the slut. Stabbed her like 50 times, am in a PO. I'll get life sentence , I guess. Was worth it. Stabbing that slut was the best thing I have ever done. I ######6 HATE her, she was supposed to love me. I have destroyed her ######6 liver. She deserved it, she never really cared about me , she wouldn't dance with me. I'm thankful.