I am a stalker

fiftysix wrote:Absolutely not! He was creepy!

But why? Stalkers can't really help themselves. He did mistakes and maybe he is sorry. Doesn't he deserve a chance?

-- Mon May 06, 2013 5:00 pm --

Winteriscoming wrote:Hi,

Are you getting any professional help for this at the moment? You still seem to be having difficulty coming to terms with the fact you have to brake contact with her.

No. I can't do it. There's still extreme jealousy inside me that consumes me. She's going to dance with another boy on May Day. I can't take it. I want to kill her, then myself. If we aren't going to live together, then we'll die together.

Smoke34 wrote: Stalkers can't really help themselves.

Exactly! there is just to higher risk of the problems starting again. Ít would be like giving a alcoholic "just 1 drink"

Winteriscoming wrote:

Smoke34 wrote: Stalkers can't really help themselves.

Exactly! there is just to higher risk of the problems starting again. Ít would be like giving a alcoholic "just 1 drink"

So what? You advise restraining order? Have you ever been a stalker? Have you ever felt the jealousy,hatred,dissapointment?

No i haven't. Clearly this is hard thats why i suggested proffesional help. You've said yourself what your doing isn't getting anyone, including yourself anywhere its making you feel

jealousy,hatred,dissapointment

. So why not talk to someone who might be able to help with a better strategy?

Winteriscoming wrote:No i haven't. Clearly this is hard thats why i suggested proffesional help. You've said yourself what your doing isn't helping anyone including yourself anywhere its making you feel

jealousy,hatred,dissapointment

. So why not talk to someone who might be able to help with a better strategy?

There's no better strategy, she's right in front of me everyday despite everything. Nothing can change that. The best way is to kill her, then kill myself.

Changing school?

-- Mon May 06, 2013 5:26 pm --

The best way is to kill her, then kill myself.

This would help in what way?

Winteriscoming wrote:Changing school?

Why should I change my school, she should go, if she wants to. I've had nothing important except her in my life. So why shouldn't we die together?

-- Mon May 06, 2013 5:30 pm --

The best way is to kill her, then kill myself.

This would help in what way?[/quote]

She'll never be with another men again and my suffering will end.

[quoteWhy should I change my school, she should go, if she wants to.][/quote]

BECAUSE YOUR ABUSING HER. This is your problem and it's your responsiblity to deal with it, she didn't choose that you become obsessed with her.

She'll never be with another men again and my suffering will end.

It's non of your business who she's with, why do you even care your not going to come out of this in a relationship wioth her.

There are more positive ways to end your suffering, Smoke, that don't involve hurting yourself or anyone else. The jealousy, hatred and disappointment you talk about don't have to be the whole of your life. You CAN move on from this without inflicting horrific pain on your families and community.

I'm not saying that's easy, or that it'll be quick. But it's a much, much better long-term choice than killing anyone. Especially someone you claimed to care about.

Ada wrote:There are more positive ways to end your suffering, Smoke, that don't involve hurting yourself or anyone else. The jealousy, hatred and disappointment you talk about don't have to be the whole of your life. You CAN move on from this without inflicting horrific pain on your families and community.

I'm not saying that's easy, or that it'll be quick. But it's a much, much better long-term choice than killing anyone. Especially someone you claimed to care about.

I CAN'T move on. She's right in front of me everyday. I don't want to live anymore anyway. So why can't we die together? Better than seeing her with somebody else