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Postby ChineseBoy » Wed May 10, 2006 3:25 am

I'm from China.Boy
I dodn't know what happened to me.
From the year of 2002, I'm suffered the mental problem--social phobias-eye light fear,or which is called eye fear.I can not call it exactly in English.
Then I can't control my eyelight. Befor others people, I always stare at boys or girls or cops or other men,,or glance men or women' eyes ,skin,even sometimes bosoms , organs, or glance other things(every things you can imagine) ,which indeedly I didn't want to watch.
No friends,No people understand me.

Please touch me immediately if you have the same symptom: Email: gaogwl@163.com MSN: gaogwl@htomail.com ICQ: 169096437

I want to find the frinds like me that come from all over the word
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Postby gaogwl » Wed May 10, 2006 3:34 am

I'm Chinese boy.
Any body's symptom like mine could touch me.
Maybe we could face to face at a certain time if you came to China or I to your country
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Postby gaogwl » Fri May 12, 2006 7:30 am

The edited msg after my register

I'm from China,Male, born in 1983.
I dodn't know what happened to me.
From the year of 2002, I've suffered from the mental problem--social phobias-eye light fear-eye fear-fears of eye-eye contact,or which is called eyelight phobias.I can not call it exactly in English.
Then I can't control my eyelight. Befor other people, I always stare at boys or girls or cops or other men,,or glance men or women' eyes ,skin,even sometimes bosoms , organs, or glance other things(every things you can imagine) ,which indeedly I didn't want to watch.
No friends,No people understand me.

Please touch me immediately if you have the same symptom: Email: gaogwl@163.com MSN: gaogwl@htomail.com ICQ: 169096437

I want to find the frinds like me that come from all over the word.

[HELP ME,CLICK THIS TOPIC MORE FREQUENTLY. SO THAT WILL BE SEARCHED BY ENGINE .THEN OTHER PEOPLE LIKE WILL FIND ME. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE]
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Postby harry » Thu Jun 15, 2006 9:46 pm

if you wear sunglasses, you can stare as much as you like and no one will know
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Postby gaogwl » Sat Jun 17, 2006 1:35 am

Thank you for your advise. I've tried it,but no useful to wear a sunglasses.
The mental problem of eye phobias is some like nightmare always around you making you anguish.
Anyone is similar to me?
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Postby gaogwl » Sat Jul 15, 2006 8:44 am

I came into contact with somebody like me on net in China.
And I saw part of them. I found their symptoms were milder than that of mine. I can not control my sight every where at any time even at home with my parents.

When I walking on road,I saw so many people looked angerly at me.Do you know why?Because of my neurosis(or called phobias)--Eye Fear.
I didn't want to look others or to glance other including still things side away,but I can't control my eye(or said my mind exactly). Some times(for example:in a bus) cop or others may suspect me as a thief.So no people understand me.
Is any people like me?Touch me immediately.I'm so lonely.
No friend.Just pain with me.

I am not optimistic about my recover(Because somebody said they've seen the doctors but no use.)
What I want to do is to gather the people like me in this world to talk or face to face to communicate .I think we'll understand each other.
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Postby gaogwl » Mon Oct 16, 2006 12:57 am

I'm,,,b...ack!
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I finished my new site

Postby gaogwl » Fri Feb 02, 2007 6:14 am

I finished my new site
Hi,I'm Back again.
I've finished my site.
Welcome to view my site.

http://www.ringsun.net

Thank you for your replies.
And any one wants to exchange links wiht my site could contact me,

Http://www.ringsun.net
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Postby mrcpn » Mon Apr 02, 2007 8:33 pm

Don't give up, not all therapists are helpful sometimes you have to find a good match for you, find what they specialize in and seek someone qualified for your problem, don't be afraid to ask them questions and tell them what you're experiencing. Read, talk, write, listen to music, whatever helps you, as long as it's a healthy outlet, sometimes exercise can do wonders, though not a cure-all, just keep researching. If you find a book on social phobia it may adress some of those things your experiencing, Knowledge Is Power.
I experience some of those things to a lesser degree, it might be helpful to expose yourself to something that may be a little uncomfortable but something you can push yourself through. Maybe if you start small and try and expose yourself to your fears a little, as long as it's safe for you, to do so. Good Luck,
Remember you're not alone with what you feel, they're are other people who feel that way also. If you read, you might be interested in searching something on EMDR.
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Postby gaogwl » Sat Apr 21, 2007 12:33 am

Thanks for your support

I'm sorry for no login for so many times
I'm a little busy doing my works, but i'll never not forget this site. i like this site, i want to fine the people who are similar to me

And i'll never give up
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