Over 50 and Bi-Curious

I'm happy to see so many men wanting to do things with guys, once they've turned 50. My story is the same. I'm 56. 10 Dated women my whole life and love them. Every once in awhile I would fantasize giving a blowjob.

Few and far between, but when I got divorced when I was 48 and living alone.... Those thoughts came back and big time. I knew I wanted to give a blowjob and taste some cum. I'm 56 now and wonder who I want to be with. Fantasies have gone past blowjobs....now anal, kissing, showering, dating?? Don't know, but I think about a relationship with a guy much more than I ever have.

The point is, do what you want. People change and it's okay.

Just to add... I've fantasized about sucking a cock for so long... it's weird....never attracted to guys before, but really wanted to taste their cum in my mouth! And just feel what it's like to suck a cock. It's finally happened a few times over the last few years, but now I'm fantasizing, about more.

It's so interesting that everything I read on here and other sites, guys talk about just wanting to give another guy a bj or hj. We are so fascinated by cocks and getting a guy off. I see some question if they are gay. No. I've come to accept I'm bi. The older I get though the more I want from a guy sexually, anal, etc. Maybe a relationship, idk.
I've thought about giving a blowjob since I was about 16 and finally did it at about 48. There's just something about making a guy cum.... hard to explain...but we have a short time on earth so go get what you want

So we grow up with a penis and are enthralled by it. I'm not sure about the rest of you but once I figured out how much pleasure was available there I was very happy to have one. I grew up finding Dads "reading material" and am heterosexual but curiosity was there from the early days.
Hitchhiking introduced me to the idea of a guy wanting to give me head, even if I got out of the car then. He unlocked the door to the idea. Once I got the first really good blow job the idea that a guy could give it also drifted across the brain. That over a long time of thinking and exposure to men at local nude beaches, where many gay men hang out and do things that might just belong behind closed doors, led to a sauna visit. There the idea that a man could give a BJ was proven and turned out to be one of the best I have ever had. Still I had to leave in a hurry after coming down from the sexual high we get when exposed to such fun. At 60 I have still to try it myself but each day brings me closer.
We have this fun toy between our legs and everyone knows that if you were blind and had no clue where the pleasure was coming from, it would still be fun! If it feels good, it feels good, period. Thus the idea of giving the pleasure has slowly become more and more of a good idea. From what I read on line this sort of logic has been working its way into the mind of many older men.
Then there is the aspect that because I love my cock, I also love how cocks look, big small, soft or hard they are all nice. Come on, they are cocks and cocks are fun! The idea to suck one just becomes logical as you get older.
Last I think there is another bit of male logic going on here. Many women, that I have been exposed to, seem to not be as excited about sex as they get older. However most of the men I know are still pretty darn excited about "getting some". Why not get a BJ from someone who wants to give one? If it feels that good and you get it then giving it back is only fair, at the very least, for some. As I am one who loves to give pleasure to my partners I am more inclined to share the fun of sucking a cock as well.

Same goes for me before I turned 50 never had a thought about sexual activity with another guy , flash forward to now and i get aroused just thinking about it. It has never concerned me , I'm happy discovering this new side to my sexuality. I'm bi and I like it that way, I feel complete sexually.

I’m 50 and married. I’ve been bicurious since about 2009. I’ve experimented orally once back in 2010. I enjoyed the act and am thankful for the experience but the person I did this with was just too weird. I’d like to continue exploring my bi side and even go further than back then. It seem the older I get the stronger the urge to have sex with men gets. I’m not sure quite what this is. I’ve read that to be truly bisexual one must be capable of having romantic feelings and or falling in love with both sexes equally. That isn’t my case. I’m interested purely in the sex only. I sometimes wonder if I’m too old for this and feel a littLe ashamed. Regardless, this is all a part of me and who I am. There’s not getting away from it and so be it. I don’t want to lose this part of myself so I embrace and try to understand it more.

You should never feel ashamed of your sexuality. It's wonderful that you embrace your bi side fully.
On another note , many wives have happily recognized this aspect of husbands sexuality and given them their blessings for two reasons, 1. as part of a longstanding marriage it's usually the woman whose sex drive declines first . 2. they'd rather have their husbands finding sufficient release and satisfaction playing with guys, so that's something to think about.
When I think about that scenario I like it a lot, being a part of something like that would definitely turn me on

Well, hello all. I just composed a pretty long post about my unfulfilled Bi-Curiosity. I hit Preview and it all went away.

I'll come back when I have more time and energy but for now I'll just say that I'm a 75 year old long time married man and I, too, think a LOT about sucking a man's penis and other related activities....

My wife is well aware of my extracurricular desires. She said if it would stop me from asking for sex then I have her permission to go find a man to help me out. Just don't bring home any diseases and don'r get caught! She wasn't kidding but I never took her up on it.

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That's very tolerant of your wife- i don't know any women that would be so laissez-faire about it. Seems to me 'bringing something home' would be a bit of a roll of the dice, though.