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Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby Parador » Wed Aug 05, 2009 1:39 am

I just thought of this. I posted it on PoF as Gllloppo. But it may deserve serious thought. Especially for guys like me. Here's the post;

Would life not be simpler and less stressful if you were free of the urge to stimulate your genitalia? If you could be free of this urge, would you make that choice?

How much time and energy to you spend in this endeavor? 25% - 50% are our estimates.

What would you do with the extra time that you had?
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby CSRevenant » Wed Aug 05, 2009 4:11 am

Ive thought about that.

On one hand - it would make life easier for many people (including me), but my hand fulfills that desire to a small extent. On the other hand, obviously, one would likely never have sex, and therefore miss out on a great experience (or so I hear). But then again, you wouldn't care if you were missing out or not.

Anyways, If I had a choice, I think I would opt for being asexual. Sexual desire gets people in trouble (unwanted children and child support), or tortures the other people that aren't getting any.
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Postby WafflesAreGood » Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:44 am

If I were asked this question any point in myself up till the last couple of the months I definitely would have said I prefer asexual. lately though I have been given hope, so I would say 'no' at least for the time being.
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby ultimate_krang » Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:36 am

no i'd rather i was having sex with people.
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby Bright eyes » Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:40 am

WafflesAreGood wrote:If I were asked this question any point in myself up till the last couple of the months I definitely would have said I prefer asexual. lately though I have been given hope, so I would say 'no' at least for the time being.


That reminds me of the "sex is like oxygen" saying.
I have though about this. I even thought about bromide tablets.

I remember seeing this documentry about this man who hadn't developed properly.
His body didn't produce, or only produced very small amounts of testoserone. He was a sucessful man, a doctor IIRC, with a nice house, degree etc.
Anyway, the show was about him starting on a series of testosterone shots.
It was amazing how he changed. His work suffered, and he became increasingly aware of women (where he had no interest beofre). He started going to the gym and working out so he could attarct womem and started going to night clubs etc.
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby ultimate_krang » Wed Aug 05, 2009 11:17 am

do you remember the name of the doco? that sounds ace!
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby Bright eyes » Wed Aug 05, 2009 2:37 pm

Sorry I can't remember. It was a few years ago.
I can't remember if it was on the BBC or channel 4.
I've tried seaching but can't find it.
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby Leviathan » Wed Aug 05, 2009 3:17 pm

I'd like to be free of sexual urges when I'm not having sex because it's too much torture. :evil:
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby Parador » Wed Aug 05, 2009 4:45 pm

The thread lives! And so does Gllloppo! They delete lots of stuff on PoF so I'm pleasantly surprised.

Here's an interesting answer from one woman -

During stimulation of genitalia, Oxytocin (a brain peptide), is released in turn reducing stress-causing hormones in the body. Levels peak during orgasm. Increased levels of oxytocin can also make you "appear" younger. So the scientific answer to your question is, yes, life would be more simple and less stressful if humans were free of the urge to stimulate thier genitals, however, the act of stimulating genitals reduces stress and hence life becomes more simple.

There are some early studies and trials into using oxytocin nasal sprays to treat anxiety disorders, but unless there is a pathological inibility to naturally produce oxytocin through such means as sex, loving relationships, generating feelings of being loved and cared for then I hold with popular scientific opinion in that artificial means of inducing this peptide should be reserved for people with pathological and neurological disorders and that every attempt should be made to assist those who have the natural ability to produce this chemical to do so through councelling and talking therapies in the first instance.


So mabe we just need this oxytocin spray.

It has not bothered me too much in the winter. But now it is summer. It's alwasy worse in summer. I need the off switch in summer.

Bright eyes wrote:I remember seeing this documentry about this man who hadn't developed properly.
His body didn't produce, or only produced very small amounts of testoserone. He was a sucessful man, a doctor IIRC, with a nice house, degree etc.
Anyway, the show was about him starting on a series of testosterone shots.
It was amazing how he changed. His work suffered, and he became increasingly aware of women (where he had no interest beofre). He started going to the gym and working out so he could attarct womem and started going to night clubs etc.


Why did he bother with the testosterone? I guess he figured the grass was greener on the other side of the fence. It always seems like that. Until you get there and discover it's artificial turf.
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Re: Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Postby Leviathan » Wed Aug 05, 2009 4:57 pm

It has not bothered me too much in the winter. But now it is summer. It's alwasy worse in summer. I need the off switch in summer.



I find it worst in the spring,March,April,May.
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