Would you prefer to be free of sexual urges? (Gllloppo lives

Interesting. It is worse in summer because of the way women dress. I'm seeing lots of very attracive women. It's better if they are all bundled up in winter clothes.

Parador wrote:Interesting. It is worse in summer because of the way women dress. I'm seeing lots of very attracive women. It's better if they are all bundled up in winter clothes.

I think it's more of an hormonal problem with me.

Gawd no. I've long since accepted that my active love life ended during my mid twenties but being unable to knock one out occasionally would make life even more boring and stressful than it already is. I have a rapidly growing lump on my left testicle that portends that even this small pleasure will soon be denied so "enjoy the urges whilst everything is still present and correct", is my take on the subject.

alphabeta wrote:Gawd no. I've long since accepted that my active love life ended during my mid twenties but being unable to knock one out occasionally would make life even more boring and stressful than it already is. I have a rapidly growing lump on my left testicle that portends that even this small pleasure will soon be denied so "enjoy the urges whilst everything is still present and correct", is my take on the subject.

My love life never started. It was actually quite a relief last winter when my libido died. I was a bit concerned that soemthing was physically wrong, but happy not to be frustrated. Maybe when winter comes I will be free again.

Bright eyes wrote:Sorry I can't remember. It was a few years ago.
I can't remember if it was on the BBC or channel 4.
I've tried seaching but can't find it.

alright fair enough, i'll do some googling.

Parador wrote:

alphabeta wrote:Gawd no. I've long since accepted that my active love life ended during my mid twenties but being unable to knock one out occasionally would make life even more boring and stressful than it already is. I have a rapidly growing lump on my left testicle that portends that even this small pleasure will soon be denied so "enjoy the urges whilst everything is still present and correct", is my take on the subject.

My love life never started. It was actually quite a relief last winter when my libido died. I was a bit concerned that soemthing was physically wrong, but happy not to be frustrated. Maybe when winter comes I will be free again.

It's a double edged sword. I'm not going to roll out that old cliche about "not missing what you've never had" because in this case it's not much of a factor. We are programmed to breed for the survival of the species so celibacy causes universal discomfort for those unlucky enough to experience it.
The one thing however, I would say about being a virgin is that the prospect of making love is infinately more magical than the real thing. In that context I would almost prefer to still be awaiting my first intimate encounter.

On scantily clad women in the summertime - when I find myself glancing in the direction of attractive young women, I look at their faces and then force myself to imagine how those features would look on a man. It put me off every single time lol.

alphabeta wrote:It's a double edged sword. I'm not going to roll out that old cliche about "not missing what you've never had" because in this case it's not much of a factor. We are programmed to breed for the survival of the species so celibacy causes universal discomfort for those unlucky enough to experience it.
The one thing however, I would say about being a virgin is that the prospect of making love is infinately more magical than the real thing. In that context I would almost prefer to still be awaiting my first intimate encounter.

On scantily clad women in the summertime - when I find myself glancing in the direction of attractive young women, I look at their faces and then force myself to imagine how those features would look on a man. It put me off every single time lol.

I have not tried that trick. I don't think it will work.

No love life - but I did overcome the virgin issue with sex workers. It was quite a relief. If I were feelng better physically, emotionally and financially I would find some sex worker up in Montreal. It's hooker heaven up there!

Booger. They just killed Gllloppo. His profile is gone. They're no fun on there at all!

Parador wrote:

alphabeta wrote:It's a double edged sword. I'm not going to roll out that old cliche about "not missing what you've never had" because in this case it's not much of a factor. We are programmed to breed for the survival of the species so celibacy causes universal discomfort for those unlucky enough to experience it.
The one thing however, I would say about being a virgin is that the prospect of making love is infinately more magical than the real thing. In that context I would almost prefer to still be awaiting my first intimate encounter.

On scantily clad women in the summertime - when I find myself glancing in the direction of attractive young women, I look at their faces and then force myself to imagine how those features would look on a man. It put me off every single time lol.

I have not tried that trick. I don't think it will work.

No love life - but I did overcome the virgin issue with sex workers. It was quite a relief. If I were feelng better physically, emotionally and financially I would find some sex worker up in Montreal. It's hooker heaven up there!

Something I've never really considered (not seriously at any rate) and I don't really know why, I certainly have no moral aversion to the idea. Although I do think I'd be extremely apprehensive about mixing with the sort of people involved in those circles so for me it's a non starter. Plus with slightly fangled genitals, I really don't think I'd get much value for money either.

alphabeta wrote:It's a double edged sword. I'm not going to roll out that old cliche about "not missing what you've never had" because in this case it's not much of a factor. We are programmed to breed for the survival of the species so celibacy causes universal discomfort for those unlucky enough to experience it.

I don't feel discomfort over it. In fact, I can't imagine why anyone would feel otherwise. I won't dispute that people consider the activity to be fun, but I will point out that there are lots of other interesting activities.