are there meds out there to help with pre-ejactulation?

I'm not sure if I have pre-ejactulation or not, I'm just real quick, depends sometimes, about 10 seconds.

It helps if I drink before, but then I have problems getting it up, and lots of times I end up passing out

PE can be relieved!

A good method is to pause during sex and then restart when you feel ready.

have a look at this url, it might help you out

http://www.penishelper.com/penis_dysfunctions.php

i find condoms help as well

put some ben gay on your penis, that will numb it, prolonging sex....okay, just kidding, dont do that. I think there are certain types of condoms that make you last longer.