Sex makes me cry?

Yes, there are doctors who deal with sexual psychology, they might be a little hard to find.

Maybe your okay and just took it a little too fast.

It seems to me like there are underlying self-esteem problems that are triggered when you have sexual intercourse. The self-esteem problems could be caused by sexual abuse when you were a child or by something else. You would have to do a review of your life to pinpoint the exact cause. It also seems as though you might be developing a bit of performance anxiety as well.

Kabuhi that sounds very likely, as I have self esteem and performance issues in general day to day life, especially in music which is my passion and what I study at university. They're words which summarise my life well haha.

As an update, me and my boyfriend now live together since September 15th. We've been so busy adjusting to new things (me moving out of my parental home, changing from a long distance relationship to living together, new financial responsibilities, starting university etc) that we've hardly had any intimacy since I moved in. But this sex problem hasn't been a problem because when we HAVE been intimate penetrative sex hasn't even come into our minds, we've always been busy with other thoughts on foreplay activities. So yeah, er sort of good news I guess?