[b]Can someone help? PLEASE!!![/b]

I have recently gotten out of a long relationship, and I have found a new girlfriend. Only problem is... I don't get an erection ilke I used to with my ex. I have no problems getting an erection when my new girlfriend and I are just playing around, but when it comes down to game time I don't exactly perform.
I know it's not physical problems because I can get an erection easily when masturbating and I still wake up with "morning woodys".
To add to the problem my new girlfriend is my best friend's sister.
Also, when I am drinking... I have no problem having sexual intercourse with her because I am less inhibited I guess.
It seems that as soon as we start getting intimate I start worrying about things. I can't get these thoughts out of my head! It is really starting to affect our relationship.
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!

Every relationship is different.

Also...check your stress status at the moment.

Have you just started a sexual relationship? drinking makes you more loose and problems fade away and can help or inhibit sex?

Maybe what's on your mind is is inhibiting this. So, Do research, descreatly? Best friends sister..are you wondering about your best friends reaction?

You have had a long relationship with another.

Suggestions:

Get to know your partner better...masterbate...and try to feel close! Learn about herself, sexually so you can identify with her.

YOu have your best friend, too. You have to decide how to approach these things?

That is something you do and only you.

Take it slow.

Stay inimate with the girlfriend. Do you talk about yourself and other relations... You better find a way?

Go slow and stick to your girl. Show her you care and be honest. Let her know honesty is good. There is know such thing as bad honesty!

Find out these things and tackle them. Don't be bull and run down everything. Be suttle.

Check out everything from all angles and help yourself tackle the problems. Don't leave your girl in the dark.

Yes, it's risky! How will she feel? All your trying to do is make the relationship better by understanding yourself and others that will be part of your life!

IF you don't...and keep her in the dark..she might feel she is the problem!

Men are problem solvers. You can put things together and take them apart...do engines and woodworking. You have to find away to work those out.

Relationships are similiar, but, more complicated. Challenge?

That must have got your attention!

You got the girl and you need to solve the problem!

Without letting your girl know how you feel is like taking the engine and going full throttle with no oil until the engine burns.

What?

Lub the engine...talk to the girl and let her know..you have a problem and you are going to solve it and I am doing this to keep us together.

Communication is like keeping that engine tuned.

Still, relations are much more complicated. She has right to do anything she wants...

Just like engine seems to have it's own behavior. Find the right stuff? It can help.

But, women are not engines..it's just metaphor! This is not machanical..it's sure you at your worst or best.

It's learning experience.

If she seems to identify with you're apprehentions that you feel...your're doing better than what I'm writing. Learn about her and what is attractive and turns you on and...work on the friend and go from their.

Stress seems to be the problem and solving them could be the answer.

Think about it!