A sexual hair fetish..what do i do with that?

OK!

I like hair! It's very sensious and relaxing!

It's also stimulating!

Not good?

Why?

OK...men like everything about the human body...expecially two? If you did your Physical Ed homework...you know the difference...

But, some of us find other things attractive...like hair!

One problem...

You cut it off? Can you cut off those two areas? You can cut hair in an instant and takes years to grow back. Men are devestated!

Who made scissors?...can I condemn them?

OK..we were doing alright at the turn of the century in 1900.

One problem...IF you cut your hair, you were...well not good. It was a discrace!

Yikes!

WWI and WWII happened and, something happened that was very necessary...

What is a bobby pin? named after the bobb. Where did that come in?

History:

When dictators...like Hitler and others were around..the "boys" were over seas...women wanted to do something about that.

They manned the factories.

Women found, very quick, if you have long hair? It get's into the machinery and you die!

The "Bob" came in and pins to let the girls see what they were doing?

One problem? No one..especially women, liked it?

So modern developement came in? It was called the media!

"Marylin Monroe came in and all the bobbed women." They were showed throughtout papers and magazines and the papers went over seas and...the "boys" still loved you! They wanted to go home...and, if you shaved your head balled..they would still embrace you from horrors of war!

The media..took on another form..hair stylists?

Media and them gave you interesting options?

What about those guys who still liked long hair?

I'm sorry..but guys seem to look in two areas..between your heart..never seeing it.. and the reproductive area...

Guys...get real?

Yes..a short haired girl with her shoulders bared, just playing with imagination is cool..

Layered hair that flirts with shoulders is cool.

But, a long haired lady..limp and looking frustrated has many things going for her.

Hair frames her face.

It hides her eyes..which is irrisistable to men!

It blanket's the shoulders and moves...and goes down to whow!

IF I stare...I am not. I am appreciating 3D, movable dimensianal art forms!

Yes.

Look at painting of naked women from 1600...2D art forms appreciated.

Girl's you are 3D movable, real time art work that get's a man's attention.

Wear it well!

Now that the baby boom is the norm of society? I say...yes to long hair...

Girls? don't give me bull about how you can't land a job with long hair? I know short "cuts"..I mean ways of getting araound that?

I know areas that you can get around that and wrap the job and be the night on the town. Us shy guys have some worth?

Guys know..girl's are just jealous...aren't you?

"You should do this..you should do that?" the women say? Do they know men? Think about it!

Don't fall for it...they a jealous of the beauty of long hair..curly...straight..kinky...blonde..brunette...black haired...?

Lovely and nice!

Come on? Think twice before scizzors?

Remember!

Biology 101: Hair is a sexual attractant! IF you think you can't do it? Us special guys know where to go?

aman in Sally's Beauty Supply. Poor sales girl! Man is on the hunt and does research...finding the right shampoo and conditioner and, looking in the back...for stuff that bring out highlights.

It's their worst nightmare!

Sales girl, "can I help.."

"Yes..is this close enough to olive oil!"

Her nightmare begins!

Guys like hair and the love it!

Your better than that?

i had ultra short hair since i was 9...i wasnt mentaly well and cut it all of at almost the root.and then i never wanted to feel the hair on my back so i never let it grow very long at all.i kept this short style up until i was pregnant with my youngest child.i dont realy know what it was but i just decided to let it grow.maybe it was the fact i was feeling secure and happy with my fiance.i was relaxed and didnt see my hair as an issue anymore.well now 3 years later ive got long hair.and boy do the men love it!.ive got dark thick shiny hair.i get so much more male attention than when i had my short locks!.

i must admit i get cross when i hear of men having that back crack and sack wax thing...i love a nice hairy man...god it drives me mad when my fiance has a little tuft of hair sticking out the top of his shirt

so hey men...stop the waxing!

Wecome to the hair fetish and why it exists and what to do about it and why they think they shouldn't, forum.

Men! They love long hair..depending on a dregree of sexuality.

Women! They love hair...depending om a degree of sexuality.

What?

Jocasey was brave enough to show us more than expected. Thank you, girl!

Listen?

This topic is not sexual disfucntion? I put it there because no one would look. IT's Sexual enlightment and all the things that we see beyond those two special areas.

If you fallow me...a good thread to make about how people feel, because, we all have it somewhere? You just have to get the balls to know you have it..and maybe nurure it.

Why?

IF you are attracted to another and like those "Classic " Areas. Don't you both deserve to know the sexuality and all it's beautiful secrets? That is beyond the classics? Anyone and everyone knows the classdics...but, who knows the subtleties of a tress in an eye and how it brings a man more to an eye...and all a girl needs to do..is, hise it for second...and show it at the right time and right place?

The topic is...for me, hair fetich..but all of us having fetiches? I haven't found a thread that really goes into that and helps in this areas...I hope a thread starts?

I hope it branches to other fetiches and what "wrong" and what is "right?"

OK...The basics of what we like?

Men: Good titts and a nice crotch?
Women...Nice...oh..I don't know this area...mustles? The one eyed wonder worm?

OK...We have found the basics!

Now, we must look at other areas that are also attractive and make a difference in how the opposite sex feels and their welbeing.

This is still a sexuality forum.

Let's take our honored guest? Jocasssy!

She had her hair worn to the roots...almost shaved...then, she got pregenant and found long hair? Why?

One: You get pregneant..a females physiliogy goes nuts...! Your hair will grow so fast because your body is looking for blood for the littleone. This little one is a very speciuos person...always looking up...to brothers and sisters...to you and I...who look

Jocasey, found somewthing she never knew..placed by a child who has everything to gain and everything to lose. THe bio-dad..you ave the place...if you don't meet up...Mom weill look for herself, AND, the little one!~

How do you know you have the Father figure and the man of your dreams?

He is the man who has never found the girl. He is the man who finds, as 18 years, a frolicky 7 year old..who says no for an answer. You find her aking you up ontop of you.,.for you didn't know you left a door onlocked and she is hangiing hanging in your face and find very frolicky eyes. Sorry, girl? You are too frolicky for your age!

MOre strange..the parents know you and trust you with their kids! Now, you know why I am?

A great fight? Kick the can..and you are the king. You put the can down? 18 years and 7 years the youngest..the parents see better than you and showed me how I had a great influence?

They were not only, there kids, but mine , too.



My ex! Who is she? She is the girl who made my daughter...a liittle of me and her...I'll love her till the end of time.

So...I look back at the devorce and go back and find where the problems were not found and the beauty of loving was there.

That is what a man should remember! It's good for them to remember the love and forget the rest. Our sorciety wants you to kill, and not charish? Why?

I walked in frorest preserves..a man of nature...and gave a ring...not the engagement..but one I told was special. A comitment ring. Mood stone. This ring says..one your birth day in this place, I will give you the engagement ring. We must know each other and at that time...we know love is everlasting?

I gave her the engagment ring...she took off the mood ring and this new tring was a blessing to us...for we med and I gave her the wedding ring.

Unfortunately it backfired...probably, because we both grew up under our families place and never were out on are own to experience life, to find it..hate it..love it and...

I have so much to say..but..let's get back to the subject.

We love THOSE areas!

We love more than that? Discover it!

Dont condemn a fetish..its an added area..or an alternative? NOw if that is...find it...you'll find your loved one!

IF you think me, just horny guy,? You are totally wrong! fro every child who has sparcles in there etes..and they all do...no matter how you condemn it..I find it! The are ready for a real man..who has fun and showes and listenes...to even the college kids.

The last thing on earth is to destroy a soul...cause it comes shining within...and makes a mark.

IF I find..just a spark..I am there to make a bonfire of personality and guide those threw this world.

Are you confused? Yes!

This guy likes hair..an alternate alternate area of sexuality! I'm putting down how man can nurture in areas you don't expect...because they are plain in my face? Why are they not in yours?

Hide your eyes for a moment and brush back your hair...I will write a whole poem for you?

If you want?

so...............are you saying that you like a man with chest hair, a woman with longa hair, or short, or a woman with pubic hair, or a man, i mena wtf are you saying exactly?

Of course.

Go through sexuality 101 in highschool and learn the physiology of the sexes.

We have two hormones:

Testosterone

Estrogen

Men and women have these..but in certain quantities. Males = high testosterone. Women = high Estrogen.

Do you understand this..and th implications? Of course not. So I use metaphors.

A man with Testosterone is like an electrician figuring light switch.

Guys are hotwired. The switch is bypassed. Try to turn it on and off...it doesn't work. Males are always sexually active...yet, mind over hormones work.

Example: You and your hunk ae walking and he eyes another women. His head turns back. Give him 15 seconds and ask him a question. Make something up. When he answersthat question...Ask this..."Who was that girl you looked at." If he sounds like he is confused. HE IS!

When mortality rates where high, men seeded women to keep population. In our society...this is what happens...passes!

Women: They are like dimmer switches. When the placenta is being formed, two weeks into period...their sexuality...usually on high. (I dated a girl in college and she was ontop of me and said..it's my time..Yikes..I was running. Two weeks later...it's different. The egg is not fertilized and cramps..period..and men? Patience!

These are basics on sexuality.

There are other areas that are sexually attractive...but not as above in my last reply.

Women: If you cut your hair, what does a man do? He's not happy.

Men: Shave your head. How does the women feel. NOT HAPPY!

We all have other areas that ae sexually attractive!

Taking not into account some of the bizzare ones? Very rare! Fetishes are based on other smaller areas that are attractive.

There's just one thing? Sometimes they are as attractive or more than the "classic areas."

So, If, I guy likes hair, I'm sure he'd be happy to wash, condition and let his fingers go through your tresses! Take advantage of that.

It goes for guys, too!

Very long hair? It hides many things..shoulders are caressed and the little "boy" in guys go girl! The best thing about hair is it brings guys to look at the most important area of a women.

Her eyes...for her expressions and soul are shown in there and can be appreciated.

Do you know what has a body of a women and long hair? A manican!

IT's the women who brings herself to life. Her movements and posture, all are dependent on style. Not the media garbage. Don't look at that. Just whole bunch of people riding on money and take advantage of actresses and models who PAID to look like that!

You make yourself.

I've looked at this in many agles..for if I have a hair fetish, I'd better understand and know who to use it for YOUR advantage..Lady.

What's the problem...tired of it?...can't get a job because you look to young. To limp...to curly?

This is not a hair styling area, but, more of an area to realise that...when you look in the mirror...you are your own worst enemy! Women get jealous of others and will tell you what you want to here and, is it attractive?

That's where us rare guys come in! Attractiveness is found in what you find sexually attractive...and it's right in front of you..buried..waited to be found. Until, then...

Fetishes are not to be frightened of, but, learned and appreciated.

Entangled

There are other areas that men and women like:

My example: A fair fetish.

Jocassy: Hairy chest.

We all have one problem?

The "classic areas", do change, but not in a few seconds?

That is why hair is such an interesting and damaging area for men and women. It can change and really hurt.

My faculties will go back to the basics of eyes and personality...but, the adjustment of change is so rapid...it can hurt a relationship! I have never had the experience of such an encounter and, admitting...I don't know what would happen?

For me, if a girl had short hair and grew it and cut, again, the damage wouldn't be so great.

If I met a girl with lovely long hair and cut it, the damage would great!

IT's the first image that kills you with a hair fetish. Especially when you admire long hair!

Of all the fetishes...hair seems to be the most damaging...for sexuality can be changed in an instant. CUT, SNIP...just a few seconds!

This get's personal, so, be very kind..please?

This idea scares the hell out of me..and, I have wished all my life I could change it!

I can't!

I[b] get mad at myself for being attracted to something so TRIVIAL![/b]Thst sentence is understantment..to a point that I wish i were like other guys!

So, it's harder to get into relationships, and I feel lonely and my depression rizes.

My logical mind says.."Get closer and find the inner, so that the outer is not so damaging."

But, it seems, the ones I would like to date, always a backdoor out, so, they don't get hurt!

I never look at a back door? I just go in and get scared!

The closer I get, with my problems, the less I want to get involved in such an undertaking, knowing, I'll be burned!

I had a chance..my ex and her desire to have long hair...and watch the mariage go down in ten years of agony!

There is one thing that is worth my while.

My daughter! A precious 13 year old...which I am waiting for all the questions and answers she will ever need!

She keeps me alive. And, I can't get around politics to see her. For my ex won't bring her to me.

A guy on SSDI..and going no where, is not attractive to anyone. So loneliness is always at my backdoor.

BUt, what women would ever believe that a man could nurture her and her own children...for that's the women who are out there!

So, loneliness is my constant comanion!

Without her?

With all this above..and the loneliness...

My life hangs by a thread..if you get my drift!