BF does only do prostitutes and will not touch me

I think my BF is addicted to sex and porn and likes prostitutes but I wonder why he doesn't want to have sex with me. Even the first week when we were all super in love he wanted to go to a prostitute.
He likes to hold me and hug and stroke my arms and kiss my forehead and tell me that I'm beautiful.

One time I undressed and tried to do a visual show for him but he screamed no and got all crazy. He said it was degrading. Buuut he likes stripclubs. He said I'm not like them. I always shave my legs but He doesn't want me to shave my legs or get breast implants but why not when the prostitutes do and have it.
One time when he got drunk and I had caught him visiting a prostitute he was crying for his mama. Hug me mama. ???

I'm thankful for all the help I can get. Should I stay or should I go?

Hi minimi25,

Your boyfriend's behaviour must be quite unsettling. Has he acknowledged that he has a problem or that his behaviour is abnormal? Or does he think that everything is fine the way it is?

The fact that he sees sex as degrading makes me think you may be right and that it is some sort of addiction for him, and that he's not visiting prostitutes simply because he enjoys it, but because he feels a compulsion to do so. Maybe he wants you to remain separate from this compulsion because he has negative feelings towards sex or towards his own sexual behaviour?

If you are not happy to continue with the current situation and he doesn't want to change, then I think staying with him would be very difficult. However maybe he wants things to change? If so, I'd be encouraging him to find a therapist.

Every relationship will have hurdles, so although you may not have to deal with this particular problem if you were in a different relationship, you would eventually have to deal with a problem. Personally, I think it's more a question of finding a partner you want to tackle problems with than finding a partner without problems! Only you can know if your boyfriend is such a partner.