Lost interest in sex and see no chance for a relationship

Hi there,

One year ago I started loosing my interest in sex. I noticed that I can go without masturbation for a long time. I started looking at women with appreciation, but not desire and passion. Being in this predicament I have tried to find help from several doctors. It all seams to be without finding the cause.
Now I face few problems:

1. I don't know how to find what my problem is. I am running out of doctors to see.

2. I am facing a life of being ALONE. Can't imagine how I can find a girl to live with.

3. I have too much on my shoulders to keep secret. Unfortunately revealing this problem to family and friends is bound to change the relationships. Don't know whom to confide in.

I will be grateful to hear how some of you have handled similar issues or even if you have not, any suggestions will be helpful.
Thanks.

3. I have too much on my shoulders to keep secret. Unfortunately revealing this problem to family and friends is bound to change the relationships. Don't know whom to confide in.

I would suggest, confide in a therapist who will remain open and objective and offer support to sort this out. Once your are able to face what burdens you, and understand for yourself then you may cope and heal.

Go to a doctor and get him to check you testosterone levels. If
this is the problem it is easily fixed by wearing a skin patch.