Masterson were you addressing it to me?

My bf cums through oral only.

He is interested in trying anal sex (and i think it is b/c he feels he might come through this). I haven't quite warmed up to it just yet.

As I said he cums through oral and will stay hard forever with regular sex, but doesn't ejaculate.

How can I differentiate what is treatable RE (does this sound like it)? How can I know if he is perhaps not attracted to me (this is a fear b/c i'm not used to this)? Also, he doesn't seem to be interested in doing oral sex on me.

He is very aggressive with initiating sex though and is affectionate with me outside the bedroom.

Any ideas o nthis case?

are you refering to sex with or without a condom.....with a condom might be losing some of the sensitivity hence the preference to oral sex.

This site might help you out : http://www.whatafeeling.net/maledysfunctions.php

Vaginal intercouse gives the least amout of stimulation to the penis when compared to oral, manual or anal sex. If he has grown used to self masturbation he has conditioned both his penis and brain to only
accept a high level of stimulation in order to reach orgasm.. Anal sex will provide this better than any other method other than hand masturbation.

See the thread on this website concerning situational retarded ejaculation for more information

The thread on Situational Retarded Ejaculation can be found at:

http://www.psychforums.com/forums/viewt ... d9d3fc8d95