My Sexually Dysfunctional Boyfriend

Some people just don't like sex, or may feel that it's not worth the bother. If you do, I would move on.

I am like your bf and I wouldn't make you stay. Leave. Find another guy that will satisfy you in bed. Just keep in mind there will be new issues. Nobody's perfect. You just have to decide which problem you want to live with. But don't pity him. There are some women who are quite happy to have a guy who doesn't pester them for sex. Let him find a girl like that and you find a guy who wants more action.

I do understand how you feel even I have never experienced such situation in my life. In my point of view, the main reason why we are into a relationship is for the hope that there will be somebody who will make us feel complete and of course for the divine purpose of multiplication. If you are not sure about your feelings towards him, if you are unhappy with the situation and if you think you deserve a better life with the arms of somebody else. I think it is the right time to shortened your agony. Free yourself from guilt and be true to him. Better to be honest than see both of you suffer for the rest of your lives.

Its really easy for people to say get out of the relationship, because they have never experienced such a thing. People think we can hang these emotions up and move on. Life does not work by running away from your problems. Love is an addiction. It's like telling a heroin addict to stop shooting up, to put the needle down, and walk away. Only those who have experienced these two will understand what I am talking about. Remember people life is not black and white. It's the grays we need to resolve.

How have you address the issue with him? In what way? If something negative is going on with him, addressing those issues might improve the situation.

Stress... Anxiety... an emotional block.... etc.

Leaving the guy can do a few things. Me? I would be tramatize because I might not understand what is wrong. It might even make the situation worse for him. He might feel betrayed or just ditched. If he feels betrayed, he WILL use that to justify loosing you. Or, he would accept you leaving. Most likely, he won't undertand how to accept you leaving at first. He's going to be really confuse and angry. At least do it gentle. All it takes is find an empty house out of nowhere to turn a nice guy to be resentful to all women and a douchebags to everyone else.

But all that Magic you speak of? Lots of it is just Hollywood talking. Nothing is immediate. You hear about magic for the first kiss, sometimes you feel nothing unless their is a strong emotional connection. It takes a lot of time and you need a lot of effort to keep it going, even though the magic might not be as grand as you like.

If there's no emotional connection AT ALL, leave. If there's still some left stay.