Sexual Anorexia

I am trying to figure out the difference between sexual anorexia versus inexperience. I am a virgin and very bothered by the thought of living life by myself and as a virgin. I found this website on surrogates who teaches you the art of touch and sex - basically dealing with inexperience as the cause of being a virgin - fear. On the other hand I have recently returned from a workshop at a treatment center who felt I needed inpatient treatment, this is a reputable treatment center - the meadows in arizona. They thought I had such severe anorexia along with some very mild addictive like tendencies that I needed a month of inpatient treatment to open up and learn how to be able to have intimate relationships and thus then being open to sexually physical relationships. Does anyone have any experience on this ....

Hey,

Do you remember if you've ever had a real interest in sex or is it a 'recent' thing? Also, which bothers you more: the living alone?; or the virgin aspect? I'll be honest in saying that I've only had sex once and I'm now 26. I didn't enjoy it either and it only lasted a few seconds. I would ideally just like someone to 'share' my life with, on whatever level that may be. So - yeh - have you always been this way? Sometimes, diet plays a role in our libido. I mean, poor diets can lead to poor/low libidos.

Kevin