fleshlights for retarded ejaculation?

Chucky wrote:This is the ultimate Kegel stretch and will eventually maen that you can have multiple orgasms (like I can).

Kevin

What's this all about? I remember I used to do a thing with my legs and I was able to have multiple ejaculations. But once I had an orgasm, it was all over. This Kegel thing will let you have multiple orgasms? Or just ejaculations? I dunno if I'm explaining this right. I mean you can have an ejaculation which isn't an orgasm because it just oozes outta you without any feeling. Kinda like a wet-dream. It just oozes outta you but you don't go all crazy like you're busting a nut.

waiiit a minute. Men can do Kegal Exercises?
Did I read you wrong chucky?

I knew women did it, never knew men could... but I guess it's the same way Women do, stop the urine... didn't know men had it too..

Hmm.

Yea, men can do it too. I think it's used a lot with guys who have pre-mature ejaculation.

Why do women do it? Don't they have those ben-wa balls or whatever? Regardless, when a woman has control of those muscles, it's pretty good stuff!!!!!!!

Actually, I'm curious how this would help the OP. He has retarded ejaculation. These exercises would help him further delay orgasm. Wouldn't it retard his already retarded ejaculation?

If it were me, I would get a girl and whack off in front of her. I'd beat it like it owed me money. Then right before I'm gonna cum, I'd stick it in her and go for broke. That would be the easiest way to train yourself to unload into a girl I think.

Thanks for being so graphic, Incorrigible. Umm, yeh, men can do these things. I read about them first in a tantric sex book that I bought. Basically, in 2 years, I have gone from a person who's orgasms last a few seconds to one who's orgasms can last a minute; and I 'multiple' orgasms each time now. My entire body gets spasms when it happens.

To answer your question, Incorrigible, the 'spasmic waves' come multiple times, but only rarely do I actually ejaculate more than once. know what I mean?

Don't mention it Chucky. You bring out the best in me. You're my muse.

Now I'm really confused. So you don't ejaculate, but have multiple orgasms?? How does your nervous system not come into play and shut you down? And what it's like when you finally shoot your final load? With me it almost hurts as there might not be anything left to shoot. I'll have to read up on these Kegel exercises..

Hmm, it's strange that we are talking so openly about this, but I guess it shows the quality of the minds holding the conversation. Anyway, tt actually does hurt me too when I orgasm, each and every time. I ejaculate straight-away, but the wave of spasms comes in the proceeding minute or so. I imagine that the testicles release some chemical into the blood to cause this, and that they release it in waves. Is this making more sense?

Lol, the forum is one thing, but don't try to bring the subject up while sipping a beer at the local pub.


Okay, I think I know what you mean now. So you're only having 1 actual orgasm. But the sensations are longer lasting and drawn out. Instead of coughing once, you go through a cough attack. You still feel the sensations after the whole deed is done. Basically, you feel as if you're having multiple orgasms but you only need one rubber to complete your mission. I think...

...one rubber? Hehe, yeh, that's all. Although, it's better if you continue to 'rub' while the whole thing is happening. Sometimes, however, the sensation can be so immense that rubbing more is actually painful. Forget this last sentence if it jus confuses you further.

Strange that you mention having beers, because I know just the guy who WOULD actually talk about this stuff over beers: Me. Maybe that's why I've no friends

I know what you're talking about. I think that's why a handjob is always the best from a girl. They can't feel what's going on and just keep going while you're flapping around like a fish outta water.

At any rate, hopefully this thread will give some people ideas. You and me are talking about 2 different techniques, but both would help someone with PE issues I would imagine.

It would be best not to mention the word 'handjob' again because one of my exes had long fingernails and wasn't overly careful, if you get me. But, anyway - yeh - we've talked about a lot of stuff here that could help people. Then again, I think that we've just about scared everyone off too. Not to worry, they're missing out on some powerful techniques.

Kevin