I have done a few sexually dysfunctional things.

I have done a few sexually dysfunctional things in my life. About 2 or 3 times I did dubious things I have guilt for. Other things have actual names which I have done so many times. I have once hacked in to somebodies account without their knowledge, but it was because I had been talked in to crimal activity against my will and I did not know how to handle it. I have also had impure thoughts.

impure thoughts? in what way?

I have had thoughts pertaining other people that are sexual. Actually, I think it is not so healthy especially if they are strangers.

Violet46 wrote:I have had thoughts pertaining other people that are sexual. Actually, I think it is not so healthy especially if they are strangers.

As long as things are kept in perspective, I'm not sure what harm it is, personally. I mean, if I get temporarily infatuated by a stranger, and have sexual thoughts, does it harm anyone? I know it's just a passing fancy. Does it harm them? They don't even know me, or know my thoughts. Am I going to somehow act on them (I'm not single)? No.

Try not to get too upset if you do have such thoughts, I have a feeling it's fairly common for people to do that every so often. Lord, if they didn't, surely the race would have died out a long time ago- how else are people supposed to find a mate, if you don't allow such thoughts when you see someone you don't know?

Get rid of the guilt. I don't know what you are into but it's natural to experiment with the body in search of pleasure. You tried something that makes you feel bad afterwards, just stop doing it and let go of the past. Doing something that others would judge immoral or inaceptable does not define who you are, it doesn't make you a bad person even if some people would think so.

Thoughts are fine as long as you don't act on one's you know are wrong. *mod edit*