Sexual/ Penis Anxiety

Hey I guess I was interested if anyone has experienced anything similar to my own issues

Just met a girl I like, after a really cool second date I invited back to my place. When she made a move on me I suffered extreme anxiety to the point where I felt sick. We didn’t have sex. I am 29 and recently out of a long term relationship and don’t have a great amount of experience. Slept with five women in total but experienced similar anxiety with all of them but managed to get through it eventually with the aid of viagra. After the first one or two encounters I get over it and I believe I’m able to deliver in the bedroom.

I feel like the anxiety comes from me not wanting to expose my flaccid penis so pressure myself to achieve erection before I get naked which then makes me anxious and I don’t achieve erection. my penis is a solid size erect but flaccid is I guess less than average, approx two inches

Frustrated I’ve carried this issue since losing my virginity at 16. Any advice on how to overcome this would be great

I suggest being honest with your partner, just like you were here.
Tell her you have anxiety and are embarrassed and ask her to help you get through it.
Practise.

dude I can totally relate. My greatest fear when I was dating (before I got married) was the anxiety of not being to "get it up." I had a lot of moments of embarrassement, even to the point where I would get a huge sharp pain in my abdomen when the woman would start to pull my pants down. Just remembering it gives me a lot of anxiety. Not sure I have any advice, just letting you know you're not alone.