Gay and Suffer Erectile Dysfunction when preforming

Well Grim Folk!

To add to the misery, I can't seem to get hard when I am trying to have sex with a guy or I can only maintain an erection to a certain point (no pun intended) then it goes down again. In the gay world I would probably be classed as a bottom, so I'm not used to usually assuming the more dominant role. What can you guys recommend? I want to be able to please my partner too not just myself.

currently taking Horny Goat Weed, as needed and cocaine on nights out in order to keep me hard and longer lasting, obviously, I want this to be a healthier routine.

First off, stop taking cocaine. One of the many, many negative effects of cocaine can be erectile dysfunction. Not while high on it, but if you go too long without it. Also, it can kill you, very, VERY easily.

On top of that, there's always medication you can be prescribed by your doctor to help you with erectile dysfunction that are much healthier. I'm a gay man who generally assumes the top role, and I have erectile dysfunction. My boyfriend and I use toys in this situation. I don't know how promiscuous you are, if at all, but maybe try investing in one of those, if you're only having sex with one person.

But definitely stop the cocaine. Hopes this helps, even a luttle.