Ashura wrote:I haven't really done prone masturbation before and seeing the results I probably won't. How would you recommend resolving this problem? This problem is quite frustrating, and I've done some experimenting with different masturbation techniques
I'm sorry but you missed the relationship between prone masturbation and your trouble with delayed ejaculation.
[*]It's reasonably faster when I masturbate, but even then it takes much longer then what seems to be the average. I feel like it always makes my partners feel bad even when I try not to let it bother me as much [*]Sometimes I don't even get it off [*]I've always had this problem.
The above statements are screaming the only thing it could be is your masturbation technique.
I think it's safe to assume you learned how to masturbate and did so hundreds of times before having your first sexual relationship and attempting intercourse, correct? True, your masturbation technique may not be described as prone but there is something about it similar to prone that is abnormal and uses more pressure/friction/force than you can get from a live woman and conventional sexual relations such as intercourse. Exactly the same as prone masturbation, your masturbation technique has conditioned your penis so that the only way you can get off is by practicing said masturbation technique.
I have a great time during sex, it feels great and everything until the fact that my partner's worn out and I still haven't ejaculated. It takes me upwards to 1 hour sometimes to get off, and I feel like sometimes it's been getting worse. It's reasonably faster when I masturbate, but even then it takes much longer then what seems to be the average
It's getting worse, and will not get any better until you identify it and commit yourself to taking action and curing it
below content quoted from healthy strokes describing the symptoms and affects of prone that are clearly the same as your symptoms and the effects it's having on you
What's wrong with masturbating prone?
Nearly all males agree that masturbating face up is a fun and delightful practice, but masturbating face down puts excessive pressure on the penis, and especially on the base of the penis. These sensations are not easily replicated in conventional masturbation or in sexual intercourse. This is not analagous to intercourse being performed face down, as most males do, because the partner's body provides more resistance than the objects a male who masturbates prone uses to thrust into or against. Prone masturbation can reduce the ability of a male to have normal sexual relations. A survey conducted for this web site revealed that males who masturbate conventionally have sexual intercourse 6.6 times more often than males who masturbate prone.
The most common problems males who masturbate prone have are delayed orgasm or a complete inability to have an orgasm during intercourse (anorgasmia). Many males who masturbate prone also have trouble getting erections. It's a common experience among males who are used to masturbating face down to be unable to have an orgasm even after engaging in sexual intercourse for over half an hour. The female partners of these men find this outcome unusual and often wonder if they are to blame for the man's inability to reach orgasm through intercourse.
These things are understandable consequences of prone masturbation. Even males who enjoy masturbating the conventional way don't get as much stimulation from intercourse as from masturbation (because in masturbation one can control precisely the type, force, and location of the stimulation one gets, while in intercourse a lot of that is not under control.) For males who masturbate prone, the amount of stimulation in intercourse is a small fraction of what they get masturbating.
How does it happen that some males masturbate prone?
More than 90 percent of males learn to masturbate through self-discovery. Males who masturbate in the prone position unfortunately self-discovered an unconventional method. The small fraction of males who learn to masturbate from other people invariably learn to do it the conventional way. (Most males who discover it for themselves also discover the conventional way.)
Your masturbation technique is not described as prone but there is clearly something about it that uses an abnormal amount of pressure/friction/force on your penis and you are experiencing the same symptoms and affects of prone masturbation
The approach to becoming cured will take commitment and a lot of hard work on your part. There is a workbook at healthystrokes.com you can print for free that will guide you thru the steps to becoming cured which first calls for abstaining from masturbation for a long period of time 3 -4 weeks after which you start practicing normal masturbation using less pressure on your penis.
The long pause in masturbation allows your penis to recover sensitivity damaged by your masturbation technique. It's likely to take more than 4 weeks to become cured and failing at the first attempt is common which there is a question and answer forum for this purpose.
Hope to see you back here someday informing me that you are cured
Good Luck, Kev