18!masturbation please help .

I been freaking out lately about me having sex.
I been masturbating since the 6 th grade but not all the time and I did it and 9th.
At the end of my senior year I begin to fully understand sex .
I would be able to get wet really fast just thinking about sex and thinking about giving a guy head .
Sometimes I would be so wet that when I'm done I would go wipe myself and then I would still feel wet and go wipe myself again
. Well I just masturbated and I wasn't in the mood to do it , I just did it cause I was horny but I was mentally tired like did not feel about thinking . But I did it anyways because when I got up to go wash up I felt that I was wet and when I went to wipe myself I was wet , so when I was rubbing my vagina started to hurt then I tried to put my finger inside and it was tight and dry and I was like that never happened before , but meanwhile when I was rubbing myself I was having intrusive thoughts for my ocd. So I tried the spit technique and I was still dry . So I wasn't pleased cause it hurt . But way before my ocd I was able to get really wet and horny . I don't know if I stayed wet during me masturbating because it never hurt when I was doing it ,
So now I'm worried thought I won't be able to have sex yet because I can't stay wet during masturbating and my vagina doesn't throb anymore when I'm horny and I don't play with myself all the time . But I heard it could be due to dehydration and my mouth was dry and j haven't been drinking water as much lately . I'm only 18 and always have been a sexual person and for me to worry about me not staying wet is worrying me . What should I do ? I'm a virgin and I would really be hurt if I can't get wet due to my boyfriend or stay wet and I want my throbbing back even tho it hurt . Sooooo what should I do because I need to be wet , and I have ocd too so does that play a part? And I feel like me playing with myself is getting old

-- Wed Aug 12, 2015 10:33 am --

i don't want to be the dry unaroused girl , non sexual person.plus I'm getting over hocd

Ah! Lots of things here. First, partner sex is different to solo sex. There's more surprise and novelty. As long as you're with someone who has a little patience for foreplay. I think you'll have plenty of time and stimulation for getting wet.

Second, yes, being hydrated is good. I confess I've never noticed a definite link between being dehydrated and being dry. But it's good for your health in so many other ways. So frequent drinks are just good in general.

Third. Being dry during sex is a problem that women have from time to time anyway. And more as we get older too. Vaginas vary as much in this respect as cocks do with erection quality and duration. But honestly, it's no big deal if you don't stay wet through sex. That's not at all uncommon if things go on for a relatively long time. If it feels uncomfortable, then spit works in the very short term. But keeping some lube around would mean never having to worry about this. And it's great to use with condoms too. A few drops inside it make the penis move more easily. Which increases all the sensations for your partner.

Fourth. Your brain is your biggest sex organ. Worrying about sex is a big turn off. And could easily be stopping your natural body responses to being horny. Like getting wet and the throbbing. I know it's super hard to "just relax." But give it time and try not to check how things are going. Just masturbate like you always have. Don't get too analytical with yourself.