What's the point of this forum (still seeking answers)

I say this coz I don't seem to be getting answers apart from Ada who's a girl.

Question:

Penis gets erect normal while masturbating watching porn or while jerking off looking/just touching hookers but when trying to insert in vagina,all the erection goes away.

Is this ED and who to consult?????
Thank you in case someone relevant accidentally answers. :/

I'm harsh because I'm pissed off due to lack of answers here.

Are you afraid of getting a woman pregnant? Or of contracting an STD from them?

KevinG31 wrote:Are you afraid of getting a woman pregnant? Or of contracting an STD from them?

No coz its with hookers but stupid bitches wont show boobs (ask extra to show)...all they give is pussy and keep nagging to finish soon. :/

hi Robveedee

Sounds like you are pretty fed up with thing as they are. just a note tho that it is not the best to refer to women as "stupid bitches"

I have a couple of thoughts. One is that to my knowledge ED can be caused by medical or psychological issues. I think that it is important it is determined what might be causing your issues and a visit to your GP would be a good place to start. They may be able to help you heal from this but if they cant or it is a complex problem they may be able to refer you to a urologist specialising in ED to help advise. Certainly in the UK there are ED clinics which ppl can be referred to for management.

I think the main thing to do to get the ball rolling is to see your GP

Cracked

I just referred to hookers as stupid bitches,not all women.

Most dirtiest scum of the planet.One of them wouldn't let me kiss her.I mean...who is the dirty piece of garbage,her or me? I was clean and she was just a dirty garbage getting pissed on by many men.

Hi Rob

Despite their profession the sex workers you are making reference to are still women and need to be respected. Many of them are not doing this work out of choice.

Anyhow- what did you think of my suggestions re the ED?

Cracked

Just to be clear again,I have nothing but respect for all women except some unprofessional prostitutes who cheat customers after taking money.

Yes dear,I think that's my first step but we don't have a family doctor like most do.I'll see if I can find a GP around here.

But generally speaking,it can't possibly be a physical problem,right? Because I can get erect at other times,hell even when I sleep...I wake up everyday to find my penis erect and the first thing I do is adjust it when I wake up.

One more thing's common though...on all occasions with prostitutes,I was slightly scared and nervous if cops would show up and was constantly reminded to hurry up.

Maybe your lack of respect for them made it difficult for you to keep erect?

You seem to lack respect for women if you feel their profession gives you the right to describe them as you are doing here. A prostitute doesn't owe you to kiss her nor does she owe you to not nag you. You actually pay them for the services they want or choose to provide and as it is their body they do not owe you a thing. Legally they aren't obligated to do anything for you, not even refund you most places in the world. This is because it is their right. This might be something to keep in mind as your view of them might not be helping your erectile problems either.

If you can get fully erect and achieve orgasm on your own, odds are this is a psychological issue. It's always wise to consult a GP. Another person you may want to consult is a therapist or counselor who can help you sort things out if it turns out to be a psychological issue.

Maybe if you tried having sex with someone you respected and didn't seem to litrally hate so much you would have more luck. Having sex with someone you feel is ripping you off and who you refer to as a stupid bitch hardly seems to be someone appropriate you can be intimate with. I'm not suprised your having problems

i have a feeling this is a troll topic, but i will answer anyway. i will go with the most obvious answer - anxiety, fear. i remember when i had first sex, i couldnt get it up for like 5~10 minutes. it never happened again, but at that moment i knew exactly what the reason was. so try it out - take some mild anxiolytic (even alcohol should do) and try it then. ofc dont get completely wasted because you wont get it up either way then. also i know a person that solved that problem by always having sex with music in the background, to move the focus.

if you wanna avoid medications of any kind, i would suggest the behavioral approach. pay a prostitute to watch you masturbate while you watch a porn, since you can get it up then. eventually you can progress with letting her touching it a little or putting it in her mouth. if all goes well, proceed with small steps. if not, go back a step. also avoid cheap prostitutes because price matters. another mistake, you are changing them too much. for this to be successful, find a few you like (tops), and always do it with them. dont feel ashamed of anything because you have no idea what people ask of them quite often, this isnt nearly as pervert as it gets.

also the imbalance between the libido and the ability to have sex can cause you to project negative impulses into them (thats why alcoholics beat wives on a regular basis). you need to understand this is not their fault and stop hating them. also you need to understand this isnt your fault either, its a minor problem and it happens a LOT. as all phobias, it also has a good prognosis so dont worry much and it will be much easier!