sexually dysfunction

I WAS RAPED IN THE 80S AND 90S BY MY FIRST HUSBEND,AND IT RUINED MY SEXUAL EVERYTHING,AND THEN I MET A MAN AND GOT MARRIED CAUSE THE SEX WAS NOT BAD AFTER NOT HAVIN IT FOR A YEAR! THEN THINGS HAPPENED ,LIKE MY DAUGHTER BECAME BI-POLAR,AND I HAD A BREAKDOWN,THEN MY SEXUAL FUNCTION HAS BEEN IN BAD SHAPE EVER SINCE. THAT WAS 5 YEARS AGO,I TRY TO AVOID IT,BUT MY HUSBEND WAS GOING WITHOUT FOR ALMOST A YEAR AT A TIME,SO I NEEDED TO DO SOMETHING,BEFORE I LOST HIM,WELL I HEAR A SEX THERAPIST IS GOOD,ANY ADVICE?

more then a sex therapist, i suggest a counsellor that will help you get over the trauma.....once the trauma is over, your sex life might return to normal...if not...then check the sex therapist