Orgasms

Is it possible that the inability to have an orgasm could be connected to a previous rape emotionally?

Or is it more likely that that has nothing to do with never having an orgasm?


For some reason, it doesnt feel particularly nice, at all, when my clit is being fingered, although actual intercourse feels great.. is this more likely what causes it?

CookiiDough

It's deffinately possible for you not to orgasm due to a rape!

It might relate to trusting the individual. For example, when I first interact with a person in sexual intercourse I already have a certain trust factor for them, hint: we're having sex! However, until I can fully let go and trust them with my everything that's the time it takes for myself to orgasm with them. That could take up to a month.

If you have trust issues in general due to a rape it can be more difficult to let go.

And as for your clit, hey they might just be doing it WRONG!

Rape could cause you to not be able to orgasm but a lot of women (the majority in younger females) can't have an orgasm at all during sex - an orgasm usually only comes during oral sex or masturbation.