penis size

Hello everyone. I have a unusual problem, a problem most guys wish they had until they live it. I am very large. While some guys would say "wish I had that problem" or "so what" I cam assure you its not cracked up to be what people think. I'm alot larger than normal not just alittle bit. My problem is as soon as women find out big I am they run. Some women have told "your not going to get that near me". That has left me with alot of lonely nights not just sexually but from a relationship point.

I have started swinging or attempting to swing I should say, in hopes of finding more women willing to try. However, they are married so no chance or a relationship there and alot of single women aren't in to swinging and doesn't want to be with a man that does.

I'm looking for any advice from other men with this issue. Also any women who has advice, either in a relationship with a man like me or whatever. How did you deal with it.

Thank you

Not all women enjoy vaginal intercourse, and fewer still are able to enjoy orgasms though vaginal intercourse. My wife and I stopped having intercourse several years ago because we were both having some discomfort, but that didn't end our sexual activity by a long shot. I can't see how a large penis would prevent sexual activities other than intercourse, unless it's a matter of "freakish" appearance that turns women off.

If you google "reduce penis size" you'll find several articles, including ones about a teenager who had surgery to reduce the size of his penis, and references to support groups for over-endowed men.

Good luck to you!

Other

There are some women out there who are looking for that...it does just take a bit more looking and effort if you want to go that route.

Also you don't have to use the whole thing. There are ways to work around the issue with lubrication and combining it with other sexual techniques. There are certainly ways to make it more comfortable for the woman.

I'd say this just takes finding a good match and figuring out some of the other issues. I really don't see this being a long-term problem, it will just take some time and effort.

My ex was large and it took us time for me to get used to him. You'll have to reassure your girlfriend that you will take it slow with her until she can adapt to your size. Lot's of foreplay and lube helps!

OMG rolltide290,
Please wake up and smell the coffee. You should get on your knees and thank heaven that you were BLESSED with a massive dick.
I speak from experience. I happen to be bisexual, very good-looking, and have slept with tons of women and guys. My only problem has been having a small 3" dick! Almost all my women friends say that if they had a choice between two equally desirable guys they would choose the guy with the bigger dick.
rolltide290, Be honest if you had a choice between a woman like Stormy Daniels or some flat-chested/flat-assed female toothpick, who would you choose???? It's no different for a normal sensual woman. To be honest the problem is that a lot of women & guys are good-for-nothing in the bedroom and should consider celibacy.
Personally, I consider anything under 8" small. I've had around 6 or 7 dicks in the 10"-11" range and loved them all.
OMG boy, I assure you that if more women knew about your wonderful dick they would be breaking down your door. Go on those internet dating sites and put yourself out there.
Anyway, I'm sure I'll now be attacked for being superficial and shallow. I don't mind because I suspect most people on this forum haven't had sex since 2001.

toodle-loo, Steve 10

Not everyone's a size queen, however. A lot of women would consider themselves 'ruined' by a large penis... which brings up the interesting question, if a woman is quite firm on that, would she also never bear a child...

Also blanket statements on desirability on physical attributes are a bit dicey- not everyone thinks the same way, or desires the same things.

The OP hasn't been on in three years, but I've heard similar complaints from other men who are too large endowed. Apparently size is good- up to a point. Anything can become unpleasant, when there's too much of it. I consider myself a bit of a size queen but I know there'd be a limit at which it'd be too uncomfortable.

It's not a bad thing and you don't have to have a nasty girl to enjoy your body. (Disclaimer: I am a former nasty girl). My boyfriend is very well endowed and I am the only woman he's been with that can take all of it. He's only had 3 partners because of his size. He had never had a BJ, girls wouldn't even try. He was close to throwing in the towel and doing porn until he met me. I've also kicked someone out of bed when I was much younger for having a huge penis. Now I wonder if I did psychological damage. Anyway, my point is- there will be a woman that will love you and your body, if she says you're too big, she's not the one. Try it before you buy it. Let them know what's in store when the pants are still on. Be honest and serious about it. Let them touch through the pants before getting naked. I'm sure there are countless women that would touch it and remove your pants in the same action.

Well, I'm very large as well, literally larger than 99.98% of men. I know, sometimes it can be difficult for girls to make oral sex or even hold it with their hands, but it's possible to have sex without pain. I find out that is better for girls when I have sex with them and they stay above me or rear entry. Try to take it easy at oral sex and keep her lubed

You really don't want to be on the other side.
I've been always ashamed of my small size and I can tell there is much more worse to come out of a small size.
You will never be sure if your girl is really happy with it, you will start to get jealous of other "at first sight well hung guys" and you'll always be depressed.
So just accept it and find a woman (I'm sure there are plenty) who will love your long dick and take it with pleasure.
BTW, how long is it? Just curious.

Having a small dick in a over-sexualized society must be difficult.