scared to be active/doing thing = then sex chatting/sex addi

Does anyone has the same issue? I want to do things, make plans and then i am kind of scared perhaps (I dont feel it) and i get onto sex chattingor want to ###$. I have one fetish, breastsuckling, which is like "breastfeeding". Could that be a early child hood trauma?
what is the natrue of this sex addiction?
can you recommend a good book? what has helped you?

btw my name is naturefloving, in nature i am fine. anyone experienced the same?

Hi there. Happy new year to you. I haven't experienced this, but it sounds like you need to seek help if you can. If you're obsessed with the thought, it could consume all of you that you fail to look at the other aspects of your life. If you can, also try to do new things or activities. But if it doesn't help, I really suggest that you get a professional opinion.

Many people like different aspects of sex and I would not consider it to be an addiction. I would seek professional help if it interferes in your daily life activities.