Sex ... sexual ... the meaning of it all?

Dear readers,

I am a recovering sex addict 26 from Holland...
Will keep it short.
I would love to hear your views

In the deepest point of my addiction I discovered an exit.
All the thinking and all the anger on my self comes down to ... A spiritual struggle ...
We humans are evolving and becoming the pure beings we supposed to be
Letting go of barbaric hardwired behavior in the soul and in the brain is a hard thing.
And can in my opinion only be achieved by stepping to the next level in this world.

do not be scared ... we humans are more scared of the things we can do then the things we cant ...
So be brave do not feel bad when you fall back and go for it!

I am now 1 day clean after a very big fall back ... but I will go to the next level starting from today.
Who joins me in this fight against the devil?

Ps. tips are welcome and I wonder if other people agree whit my vision on this addiction?

I went bad agine!!!
Damit ...

Ok I am starting from now on no more mastrubation I can do it!

Potvis22, I don't want to discourage you; I wish you all the luck in the world with doing and becoming the person that you want to be. Having said that, I too am a sex addict and particularly I am addicted to masturbation. But I see masturbation as the lesser (least, really) of evils. What outlet will you have for your need? Do you worry that it will build to a point where you might do something that you might regret, later?

Hi Jim,
I am to adicted to matrubation ... I think this evil mind game my mind plays whit me is just something I need to escape before I can enter my real self ...

Any tips how to stop mastrubation ?

I haven't been successful at that, myself; I have been masturbating more, lately, than ever before. But the times I was able to cut down was when I kept myself busy doing other things.

I don't think that sex is evil. I'm not quite sure if that's what you meant in your original post or not. But being totally pure. No sex at all. Means no people at all after a generation either.

Plus I believe sex can be a powerful way for people to connect with each other. And can be part of a healthy, supportive relationship. It's the imbalance that's bad. IMO. And so Jim's comment about keeping busy with other things. Resonates with me. If your focus is on for example. Healthy living. And thinking about exercising. Eating clean. Sleeping well. Then that's obviously less time for thinking about sex. And it also gives a stronger healthier body. Which also helps physically. [In my opinion. I'm no expert or anything!]