Fixation On People With Dark Hair

Several prominent people in positions of authority when I was growing up had dark hair (dirty blonde, black, dark brown etc.) so I now have this unusual fetish where I like to see or imagine people with darker colored hair with strong wills brought down a peg and forced into a position of submission where they have to comply with someone else being in control. I don’t know where this began or whether or not it’s a sign of a fetish or addiction. I’m sure in the experiences of others not every prominent person had dark hair and not every dark haired person was strong willed.

Fixations vary and yours perhaps relates to the previous experiences you have. Maybe as long as it doesn’t lead to porn addiction, affecting your relationships and decisions, then there shouldn’t be any problem?