schoolgirl/schoolboy porn

I'm married and we're planning not to have kids yet (planning to purchase a house or invest, those sorta kind of things). My wife and I have decent jobs but we have conflicting schedules- she works during the night and I do during the day. We only get to sleep together 3 times a week. Ever since I was in college, I've been watching porn, well, that's what the rest of my buddies do too and think that it's quite normal. The thing is, I don't know if it has affected my sex life. I easily come when I masturbate while watching porn vs having sex with my wife. Just this year, I've been drawn to watching schoolboy to schoolgirl porn. I have admitted to myself that partly, I have been a porn addict but was able to lessen the frequency of watching online porn, even got proud of myself that I have recovered a bit, but in February, I've got hooked with schoolboy and schoolgirl porn. I wouldn't allow a day to pass without it. I don't know if this is still manageable or should I overreact, talk to my wife (who's clueless about this) and seek help.

I think it is not bad to masturbate in a day and have sex with wife..

I think porn is "normal." But obsessing about it is less so. What would happen if you tried to go without? What is the conversation in your head when you are thinking about looking at porn?

Ask yourself, what do movies do best?

Answer: movies capture you, they are designed to draw you in and make everything feel real.

Porn movies/videos do the same thing, but on an even more personal level, with more meaning to you.

Porn videos sexuallise women and make them APPEAR as sex objects solely. That is the key. They'll play into people's possible fantasies and oversexualise every gesture, real or not. Specific camera tricks are also used to help you see a women purely as a sexual object & to get aroused.

Now ask yourself, do you think your wife can be compared side-by-side to a porn video?
or is she human and not purely designed to help you jack off every second like porn videos are SOLELY designed to be.
It should be obvious.

hope you catch my drift, albeit harsh.