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Postby redcow » Tue Sep 02, 2014 3:41 pm

Hello, please, if someone cathces one mastrubating or moaning or touching himself f.e. in toilet or anywhere where one tries to hide but someone drops in, what reaction is to be expected?

Can one be acused because of it and how many would underestimate such a person? Is there a danger that someone would call ambulance?

Many thanks for the answers!
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Re: Reactions to masturbation

Postby pistils » Sun Sep 07, 2014 9:03 pm

I think most women would be embarassed and would desist. Men- well some of them would want to impress you. Ambulance- I think that's unlikely: most people can figure that one out, and would probably prefer to ignore you.

So long as you weren't visible, legal ramifications would probably be minimal but might depend on your jurisdiction. After all, I don't think it's considered public unless you are seen, so long as you are not toooooo obvious about things.

Why do you ask?
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Re: Reactions to masturbation

Postby Myotherlife » Mon Sep 08, 2014 3:00 pm

An ambulance? Whatever for? At my age, I think that I may have a heart attack or stroke while I pound away, and pound away, and pound away, waiting for that delicious moment which sometimes doesn't want to arrive. But otherwise, masturbation is one of the safer activities I can think of.

Why would you be concerned about being seen? Unless you have a "Watch me while I jerk off" fetish, there shouldn't be any reason for anyone to see you. The worst outcome of being seen, especially if the person seeing you is a religious nutbar, is arrest and conviction for flashing or, if children are anywhere near, of pedophilia. And police involvement could easily mean confiscation of your computer, and god help you, depending on where you live, if the police were to find child porn, or almost any porn, on your hard drive. In the U.S., for example, there are no few men in prison simply because they were sexual in too public a way.

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Re: Reactions to masturbation

Postby frustratedoldguy » Wed Dec 17, 2014 4:30 pm

You don't have to panic or really 'do' anything. You should learn the sounds of someone pleasuring themselves so you'll know there is no emergency. Nearly everybody does it. When I come across something, I'll either ignore it, or maybe if it's a person I like I'll listen to the sounds they make.
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Re: Reactions to masturbation

Postby Randi » Wed Dec 17, 2014 11:20 pm

I've been caught a few times, mostly by parents. The worst that has happened is a disgusted look (like I care!).
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Re: Reactions to masturbation

Postby Ada » Thu Dec 18, 2014 1:45 pm

Like they don't do it themselves! :roll:
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Re: Reactions to masturbation

Postby Randi » Thu Dec 18, 2014 1:49 pm

I agree. I've walked in on people and I usually just walk out. I don't say anything, I don't think they should be embarrassed.
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