Do you think my uncle wanted to do something sexual to me?

You have been exposed to behaviour that has messed with your boundaries and also have hormones running amok. You may be attracted to your uncle because of all this but it is not something to act on or to end up in a situation with him that could traumatise you. Be careful and put some strong boundaries up between the two of you.

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What's the age of consent in your area? Honestly I don't think incest between consenting adults is necessarily a bad idea. It's still illegal but just because something is illegal doesn't mean it's bad. It depends on the individuals involved and how you handle the situation. If I had an aunt that I actually liked (I hate my aunts) and was attractive and she was interested me in that way, I would go for it (I'm 25 but I dont think it would have made a difference if I was 15 in that situation. It may be different in a man on man situation though. Because men tend to be the more dominant figure. Women not so much. And even if 15 were too young, I'd have no problem waiting until 16, the age of consent where I live, in that kind of situation). Call me a libertarian but I don't think consensual incest (someone whose too young can't consent though) should be illegal unless reproduction is involved. And I can't help but laugh whenever I see some older female teacher going to jail for "molesting" a young male highschool student. Where the hell were these teachers when I went to school? (as such, I don't quite agree with the limits imposed by the age of consent laws either. But it's a grey area. I can't really tell you what the real number should be. I guess it depends on the individual) I would have killed to have been seduced by an older woman as a highschool kid. If that happened, my self-esteem today would have been a lot higher and I probably wouldn't have Avoidant Personality Disorder anymore.

I'm not saying you should go for it once you reach the age of consent because I don't know this dude and it could turn ugly. But I don't have this cartoonish black/white revulsion towards incest like everyone has because they were brainwashed by society to believe that "incest is bad mmkay" without giving real critical thought to the issue.

I think you haveing a laugh , black jock strap ????? your a cool wind up merchant, did you read this in a porn mag. Your all in a cabin an you sleep with your uncle in a black jock strap. what did the rest of the family wear bondage gear.

Try to be sensitive. This can be a poster who actually has this problem, guys.

Usernameforum, are you ok?