My Story (2 year update)

thanks for your reply Terry, apart from the obvious she is a great Mum and i think she’s done a good job of bringing me up on her own, a part of me is still hopeful that one day i’ll meet her family, even if it’s only just to show them that we did ok on our own, i’m not sure it will ever happen as my Mum is very bitter towards her parents, she has never touched a penny of the trust fund that they set up in her name and could’ve used from the age of 21 (i don’t think of them as my own family as they’ve played no part in my life)

Jake

For me, not touching a trust fund speaks volumes...

Dear Jake,
I know you have posted your experience many years ago and probably are not watching this Forum anymore,
nevertheless I would like to tell you the most comforting words to you and your mother. After reading your story I cannot really find any guilt in your mother. Such a young girl being pregnant, abandoned by her family, needing to be protected and beloved. Poor thing.
I do not mean she did the right thing to you, but her need to feel beloved and bound to somebody let her act in that way.
She is still young and, as you wrote, attractive. She needs to find a good man able to give her so much love and protection, till she will understand by herself that her love to you can be expressed also in another way.
And to you I want to tell that you gave me an impression of unbelievable maturity, sensibility and intelligence.
I hope in the meanwhile you and your Mum could find out the best way to love each other and to be happy.