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by nightmareb4christmas » Mon Feb 16, 2009 7:29 pm
friend. But she says she can't come because she has no money. So Im going with my annoying slow walking friend instead. I really wish I could go with my friend who I miss but I'am also worried that she's going to say as late as thursday do you still want to go tomorrow
Im sorry if I posted this in the wrong place but I do miss my friend when Im not with her and I never get to see her anymore
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by jasmin » Wed Feb 18, 2009 7:57 pm
Hey, how did it go? There's nothing wrong with missing a friend. She probably misses you too. Maybe it would help if you told her how you feel and that you need her to take it seriously.
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by nightmareb4christmas » Wed Feb 18, 2009 8:01 pm
She dosen't miss me
and I have told her how I feel and she just told me I was been childish and freaking her out
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by jasmin » Wed Feb 18, 2009 8:34 pm
((((((((((((((((nightmareb4christmas))))))))))))))))) I'm sorry she reacted that way. If people haven't dealt with some kind of anxiety or if they've never felt really lonely, they don't get it. That doesn't excuse what she said to you, though.
Do you like to go out with other friends too? You'll meet someone who you can get closer to, you'll see.
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by jasmin » Wed Feb 18, 2009 9:34 pm
Maybe she'll realize she messed up and apologise. You could try to explain to her that you were feeling low and you didn't mean to make her feel weird.
Having a few people that understand and care is more important than having lots of friends, and you can get that.
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by jasmin » Thu Feb 19, 2009 3:03 pm
Then maybe you should stop talking to her for a while, if she doesn't seem to understand.
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by nightmareb4christmas » Thu Feb 19, 2009 10:50 pm
yes I think I will have to do that again
I will write to her again just before the kids at the school I work at break up for Easter
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by jasmin » Fri Feb 20, 2009 9:12 am
That sounds like a good idea. I hope she will be nicer next time.
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