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Postby user497620 » Fri Nov 06, 2020 2:07 pm

Hi everyone.
I’m still trying to get over what my ex girlfriend did to me. She was a narcissist who cheated on me and she lied and hurt me so badly. At one point we had an argument where she reduced me to tears because I thought another woman looked pretty but I would never cheat on her. Then we had another argument where she accused me of not wanting to meet up during lockdown when I actually tried to but couldn’t because of restrictions and so she called me a mammy’s boy because of it.
Then we got back together and I found out again that she was cheating behind my back. She instantly jumped into someone else’s arms immediately afterwards without caring and started rubbing it in and saying I never believed her when I actually trusted and loved her so much. She’s cheated on him and gotten away with it and she’s still trying to hurt me and say all of these things.
All of this has affected me so badly to the point where I’ve lost hope in myself and actually attempted self harming at one point and now I feel devastated and scared because of the narcissistic abuse that I suffered.
I’m sorry to rant and you don’t have to put this post up or respond to it but I just needed to let out how low I feel because of her. Any responses would be helpful though.
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Re: Trauma

Postby CammieMe » Mon Nov 16, 2020 4:23 am

Hi there. I'm sorry to hear about what happened. That's brave of you to open up. Breakups are painful but it's not the end of you. There's a big world out there to focus on the pain she caused you. For what it's worth, she's the one who lost, so think of it as a blessing that you knew about her early. Imagine if she had been your wife and you have kids with her. Distract yourself for now, but you'll get over it. You'll feel great one of these days and you'll look back and won't care.

Best of luck!
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