Our partner

Affects of Criticism on Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

Open Discussions about Self Esteem and Related Issues

Affects of Criticism on Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

Postby amsquareb » Fri May 25, 2018 7:18 pm

At what amount (in respects of no. of people, no. of times and severity) of criticism from the others, one normally starts to have self-doubt and his/her self-confidence is broken? At what amount, IDEALLY should that be happening? Infinity?
amsquareb
Consumer 0
Consumer 0
 
Posts: 1
Joined: Fri May 25, 2018 7:13 pm
Local time: Sun Jul 13, 2025 10:08 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)


ADVERTISEMENT

Re: Affects of Criticism on Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

Postby Wally58 » Sat May 26, 2018 10:40 am

I used to be unable to handle any type of criticism. Everything anybody said began to feel like criticism after awhile.
It was partly due to a large ego and little self-esteem. It was also due to being too close to mom and having severe depression when I lived at their house under their roof.
I began to feel better about myself and was able to handle criticism better after quitting drinking and receiving treatment for depression and anxiety. I was alcoholic and felt bad about myself for that.
Sometimes a disagreement will flash me back into the past feelings, but I don't stay with that feeling for very long. It used to eat me up and I was constantly angry and depressed about any kind of disapproval at work or at home.
Criticism can be used to control you in a relationship. It can be used to keep you from moving forward with self-improvement.
The amount that criticism affects you can vary. There is no set amount. If you feel that it is intolerable, do a personal inventory of yourself and go with it to a professional for an evaluation.
Best of luck to you. :D
We do NOT delete posts

Read the forum rules before posting here. If you are having any doubts about what you are posting, if you are thinking in the back of your mind, "I am going to want to delete this, or these details, later", remove those details, or step back and don't post until you are sure.
User avatar
Wally58
Moderator: Consumer
Moderator: Consumer
 
Posts: 1434
Joined: Fri Jun 07, 2013 10:47 am
Local time: Sun Jul 13, 2025 12:38 pm
Blog: View Blog (0)

Re: Affects of Criticism on Self-Esteem and Self-Confidence.

Postby quietgirl2538 » Mon Jun 18, 2018 1:35 pm

I think it really affects people differently. I am very sensitive to begin with. Add critical criticism and even constructive type of criticism can be difficult to take at times. With the help of therapy and feeling like I am a good person, and that at my own pace, I can be able to handle any type of criticism, I can move forward in a positive way. It helps to have others who really know you even your therapist give you uplifting words. You tend to believe it and internalize all the good from that.

I come from a background of receiving only or mostly negative remarks about anything I said and did. I got constantly criticized. For years as a teen. Mentally I am strong but sometimes I feel so inadequate and have a hard time believing I am good enough. I had 5 of my teen years like this. It really affected me.
“There’s an Asian expression that ‘a burden shared is halved.’"

Bipolar
ADHD
User avatar
quietgirl2538
Consumer 6
Consumer 6
 
Posts: 6030
Joined: Sat Feb 16, 2013 2:23 am
Local time: Sun Jul 13, 2025 11:38 am
Blog: View Blog (148)


Return to Self Esteem




  • Related articles
    Replies
    Views
    Last post

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 1 guest