abusive wife

I'll try and keep this short and simple...

My wife calls me a loser and i'm stupid. She hits me and yells at me at the top of her lungs. Show throws things at me and never lets me see my friends, she also calls my friends losers. But...sometimes our love is so strong and she thinks i'm great and wonderful...it kinda takes a tol on my paranoia and stuff coz i'm schizoaffective..so sometimes i get like delusions she gonna kill me..i dunno..what should i do?

Dear trance_dom,
Your wife is being abusive. She seems to have violent mood swings. With your own mental health issues, it is hard to gauge whether or not you are in real danger. But in this case, I think you should contact an abuse hotline and get help. A man can be the victim of domestic abuse, too. If she is unwilling to get help for her rages, you probably should seek a safer environment away from her.

yeah i guess that is the only route..i really do think she has a mental problem...but she never used to be like this maybe i drove her too it....

Now that's the wrong kind of thinking. That's the kind of thinking that abusers want. It isnt your fault at all. Your wife is abusing you and that's wrong plain and simple. Obviously the next time she get's violent you should call 911. I'd look into some councilling for youself, move out aswell. She need's to realize she has a problem. She's attempting to control you.

Think if a man was abusing a women. People would be telling her to leave, get out ect. It still applies here.

i dont no much about these things, i was just serfing and read this... but il try help anyway

I see when you say when you're loves strong ect.. when you have those moments, picture in your head how violent she is towards you.. do you really want to be with someone like that? the delusions must be hard for you i do suggest you do what puma and and SiD say.

I hope things turn out right for you

Seroxen