I want to stop having crushes.

Hello, how are you? long story short, I am very insecure so i develop crushes which i consider non-romantic because i don't see a relationship, i just feel the strong need to impress my "crushes". And i know why i feel like that, I am insecure, I am a mess.. I am very insecure, I don't want to have crushes anymore, they do nothing for me, I want it to stop.

Someone please help

iwanttolearn wrote:And i know why i feel like that, I am insecure, I am a mess.

... please can you expand on this a little. it's not clear from what you've written just what you think you're getting from these crushes, especially as you just want to impress them. are you looking for their admiration/approval/attention?